Comment: we can't help but to adjust to a lifestyle of this sort. As long as she gives back to her community and also try to contribute to the marriage, she is ok.

Comment: the price of unhappiness is very unsettling. my parents got divorced when i was 9 years old. By the time they covered attorneys fee's and spousal support and child support, it appeared to be such a waste. a marriage counselor would have been much cheaper. if these couples can live together helpless and separated. there is a chance they can still make their marriage work.

Comment: you have to embrace your height and when i say your height, i mean all of your height. When you wear flats,when your hair is a certain way, when you weaar heels, etc. some men find it extremely attractive and embrace a taller woman even if he is not shorter than you. if your man says he doesn't mind you having a couple of inches on him on our wedding day. Who cares. Wear 4 inch heels and embrace it and just enjoy your wedding.

Comment: i totally agree with you Alex. The divorce rate is so high and there are so many single parent homes. However with that being said this really depends on your situation. If there are children involved you have to be careful and exhaust every option, unless there are drastic problems (abuse, cheating, etc). Therapy is always a great start.

Comment: black pumps, red thong!

Comment: I try to sway friends away from eating after a breakup. However if you do have to, the way we have all had to binge through our emotions. i love haagen daz, chocolate chip cookie dough or cookies and cream. pepperoni pizza combos,spagettini and meat with sauce with melted american cheese and ranch dressing on the side. Yummy! However we should try to avoind the break binge or hit the gym during the binge.

Comment: honeymoons are supposed to be an extension of getting to know each other. ladies should try to partisipate in an activity that maybe your man likes, but you have no clue about. For example a good friend of mine, just got married and honeymooned. she took golf lessons with her husband. thats a great activity and then they golfed together during the trip.

Comment: Movies to watch is a minor adjustment. if you interests in movies are drastically different then you should take turns. It's all about compromise.

Comment: OMG!!! i have a big problem with this. C-R-A-Z-Y!!! thats what you would have to be to go along with something like this. We are in an era where AIDS is running rampant. Also if this is so, men are just getting lazy and cheap. ladies please stand up and don't' agree to this.

Comment: Fun way to spice things up. sometimes it hard for men to look at you still as this sex goodess after marriage and especially after children. For goodness sakes this is the mother of my child is what he is thinking. He's not going to throw you around the room the way he used too. it's just an instinct.