Comment: Depressing is right. Start counting..! I wonder how accurate this number is?

Comment: Depressing is right. Start counting..!

Comment: If you didn't have a dirty text message from one of your guy friends to flash, how would you feel? Not even the least bit jealous?!

Comment: This is so sweet- how love and perfection go hand in hand in your relationship, but Christopher- I can't believe you fell for that trap in the first place! It's good that you learned! When a guy lets on that he notices a flaw, you NEVER forget it- at least I don't.

Comment: I understand where you are coming from but I don't think that "dudes" get all worked up about virgins solely because sex with one would be pleasurable (mind you I may not know as I'm not a dude). But II think it's more about purity. I think there is something very compelling for men and women alike to know that you are your partner's only partner. Does that mean women should keep their legs closed and men should keep their pants zipped until their 90? Hell no. But it's something to think about!

Comment: While I agree, I find it really difficult to accept man-battering as domestic violence. I certainly don't picture male victims when I hear "domestic violence" - it's almost as if it feels funny coming across the tongue. Guess its just another gendered stereotype that needs a fixin'.

Comment: I say stick with the big ones--- even if your only looking for one teeny tiny specific fish, you might as well fish in the WHOLE ocean, not your backyard watering hole. OK lame extended metaphor but it's a valid point.

Comment: I can't rationalize committing myself to a life of misery for anything, let alone the bible.

Comment: This is crazy-- to group all men / women together almost as awful as grouping people by color... give me a break. It's ignorant

Comment: I have to agree that Obama is helping my game- at least this week. Supporting him is an automatic bridge builder. You almost can't go wrong with Obama praise as an icebreaker... at least around here (NYC).