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Can I Take Antidepressants While I'm Pregnant? [VIDEO]
Don't let your depression go untreated during pregnancy!

How Can I Manage My Depression While I'm Pregnant? [VIDEO]

Depression is dangerous to pregnant moms and unborn babies. Dr. Shosh is here to help!

In this video, hypnotherapist, psychologist and YourTango Expert Dr. Shoshana Bennett addresses the complicated issue of how to manage your depression during pregnancy.

I'm Crazy About You and I Have Depression

I'm Crazy About You and I Have Depression

There is no right time to tell someone you’ve been diagnosed with major depression, but . . .

You’ve been dating someone for a while and really look forward to being in their company. It keeps going through your mind, and heart, that you want to spend more time with this person; maybe there is something long-term brewing. Is now a good time to tell them you have a depressive disorder and take medication? Should you have already said something?

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How To Manage Depression Without Meds [EXPERT]

How love -- not drugs -- can save you and your relationship.

What a difference a few years makes. "New Cures for Depression" shouted the 1986 essay in New Woman magazine; "Dramatic Progress against Depression," blared a New York Times Magazine piece in 1990. Its subtitle was revealing: "The success of new drugs is prompting debate on their overuse—and the value of talk therapy." That story smugly said that the new wave of antidepressants, including the then two-year old Prozac, which took the country by storm, had "proved to be as effective as the older ones and often safer." What's more, the article went on to say that these amazing new drugs worked when old-fashioned talk therapy didn't. Psychotherapy was relegated to the dustbin of history.

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Managing Depression When You're Trying To Conceive

How do you manage depression when SSRIs and other medications are not an option?

I try to divorce Michael at least once a month. I blame this on the PMDD, though I've also been diagnosed with chronic depression and anxiety and, once, a psychopharmacologist told me I had obvious bipolar tendencies. After the PMDD diagnosis, I realized that switching to Yaz was sufficient for managing my wild mood swings. Then, I decided to have a baby.

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Baby Bytes: The Birds And The Bees

The sex talk, body image, depression, and other heavy topics.

Here at LoveMom, we bring you the love. Our weekly Baby Bytes bring you everything else. Here are this week's 6 must-click mom links.

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Why Are Women Under 30 Having So Little Sex?

Low sexual desire? One sex researcher explains why so many young women don't want to have sex.

According to a group of new studies, young women between the ages of 18 and 30 are suffering from low libido at rates never seen before: 43 percent of women have sexual problems, they say. And 1 in 10 women doesn't want to have sex at all, trumpeted a recent ABC News story. The weird part isn't the fact that women are reporting what experts like to call "sexual dysfunction," but that women this young are: Usually we think of sexual issues as the stuff that plagues the over-40 set. But sexperts are now blaming 20-somethings with low libido on everything from stress (we're worried about our jobs/working longer hours) to birth control/antidepressants (both are potent chemical cocktails that can make lust dry up), and, well, Hollywood.

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Would You Date Someone Who Takes Antidepressants?

Are you turned off when a partner takes behavioral meds?

If you're on antidepressants, chances are, the person you're dating will find out. For some women, this discovery can become a pivotal point in the relationship.

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Depressed: Forget Pills. Try Sex?

A study proves how satisfied you are sexually may affect your general happiness.

A recent study of 295 women between the ages of 20 and 65, both pre and post menopausal, proved that those most dissatisfied with their sex lives are also significantly less content in general.

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Antidepressants Linked To Male Infertility

Paxil side effects worse than semi-erect penises.

A new study published in the online edition of Fertility and Sterility has concluded that half of men taking SSRIs could have damaged sperm and compromised fertility. The study, conducted by the New York Presbyterian Hospital and Weill Cornell Medical Center, followed 35 healthy male volunteers who took paroxetine (Paxil) for five weeks. At the end of the five weeks, sperm samples were taken from the men and examined to determine whether there were any missing pieces of genetic code in the sperm DNA. Their findings? That the percentage of men with abnormal DNA fragmentation jumped from less than 10% at the beginning of the study to 50% afterward.

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The Links: Mother's Day & John Edwards

Guys & strip clubs, when to move in and pregnant women are smug.

Big things, it's Military Spouse Appreciate Day, Mother's Day sex advice, Candace Bergen on John Edwards, strip clubs appeal, having a boyfriend backup plan, when to move in, Twilight getting frisky, pregnant women are smug, picking up a bartender, limits of sexual adventurousness, a plea for comprehensive sex-ed, how a decreased libido improved dating and how pregnancy made sex better.

Louisiana, Paxil Bad For Fertility

Louisiana, Paxil Bad For Fertility

State lawmaker and popular antidepressant both bad for baby-making.

Making babies met two very different forms of Kryptonite this week: the state of Louisiana and the antidepressant, Paxil. New Orleans' Times-Picayune reported this week that state representative John LaBruzzo, a Republican, is studying a plan that would pay women $1,000 to have their tubes tied in an effort to curb welfare costs.