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Marriage is obsolete -- except among white, educated people, says a recent study.

Is Marriage The New Status Symbol?

New study says only 51% of U.S. adults are married. This confirms my opinion: Marriage is obsolete.

Uh-oh, someone alert the Traditional Values Coalition, because marriage is on the decline. The percentage of married individuals in the U.S. is at a record low, with only 51% of adults 18 and over currently being hitched, according to a Pew Research Center study that came out today. This percentage is not only a drastic decline from the 72% of married adults in 1960, but it has also dropped a significant 5% between 2009 and 2010.

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I hear there are some wild parties in Hell.

What's Worse: Cheating Or Atheism?

The holidays inspire us to think about whether we believe in God. I don't.

As an atheist, it's nice to know that I'm less likely to ever become president than a devout Christian who's cheated on his wife with everything that moves. Hypocrites much? Even as an atheist, I know the Ten Commandments better than some conservative folks.

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A few of my favorite indie songs about love.

Angry Single Blogger: The 10 Best NON-LAME Love Songs Of 2011

I don't listen to Justin Bieber or Lady Gaga. But I have a kick-ass, UNIQUE music collection.

It seems that my opinion on how important music is to a relationship and how my taste in music is far superior to most people's has ruffled some feathers. So, in an effort to help those poor Lady Gaga, Coldplay and Justin Bieber fans out there, I'm doing them a favor by offering my 10 favorite love songs... that aren't mainstream and lame.

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Look ma, we're a real couple! Really!

Temporary Holiday Boyfriends: WTF?

You know love is dead when people start advertising for holiday significant others on Craigslist.

Surprisingly, or maybe unsurprisingly, some singles are looking for temporary relationships for the holiday season. Apparently, it's fine to be single all year long, but when Christmas, Hanukkah or whatever your holiday jam is rolls around, you best be coupled up, sister. And since you can find pretty much everything else on Craigslist, you might as well find a short-term fella to bring home to mom and dad.

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Matchmaker, matchmaker...

Angry Single Blogger: Lessons From My First Matchmaking Event

Plus, 7 tips on making it through your first matchmaking event.

The art of matchmaking has been around since at least the 1600s. In a society where everyone is being pressured to pair off, for some, matchmaking services seem like the best way to find love. I had neither met a matchmaker nor attended a matchmaking event until recently.

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Safe sex is vastly underrated.

"I Don't Care How Drunk You Are: Use A Friggin' Condom!"

Study says that condom use (or non-use) has nothing to do with drunkenness. So no more excuses.

One would think that, after years of condom-on-banana sex ed in our schools, we'd finally get that condom use is kind of a smart idea. And when I say "kind of," I really mean "just wrap it up, you idiots."

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I guess I never got the memo that life is all about having a boyfriend.

"Are You Still Single?" Or Why I Don't Go Home For Thanksgiving

On Thanksgiving, my family pried into my love life. So I shut them up them only way I knew how...

I was 12 the first time my aunt asked me over Thanksgiving dinner if I had a boyfriend yet. Twelve. I was two years away from my first "official" date, and six years away from losing my virginity on the bottom bunk of a dorm room at Keene State College. So no, Auntie Franny, I don't have a boyfriend.

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Gentlemen, if you don't share my bleeding heart liberal views, we will not be having sex.

Angry Single Blogger: Why I'll Never Have Sex With A Republican

Except one! There is only ONE Republican I'd have sex with, and he would be worth it.

Note to the male population: If you don't share my bleeding heart liberal views, we will not be having sex. Just something to think about during this pre-election season, which has already bombarded us with incompetent GOP debates and Rick Perry's overtly bizarre behavior. I'm apparently in the minority on this one, however.

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"I'll have the filet mignon."

Angry Single Blogger: Would You Go On A Date For The Free Meal?

My friends are dating for free dinners! What's with this trend? Is it the economy, stupid?

When I recently told my sister that I was going to start actively dating and really putting myself out there, her response was simple and to the point: "Well, at least you can get a free meal out of it." I had always thought people said this as a joke, but after a bit of investigating among my single girlfriends, quite a few of them actually admitted to dating solely for the free dinner.

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Do you do Kegel exercises? This woman does.

Does "Doing Your Kegels" Lead To Hotter Sex?

Pull your pelvic muscles in, then release. In, then release. Feel calmer yet?

On top of helping with urinary incontinence later in life, keeping your lady parts nice and taut, and making childbirth smoother, I'm sure you've also heard that Kegels are a great way to keep your sex life in tip-top shape. And if you can incorporate them into your between-the-sheets routine (or non-routine, wink), you're making the experience even more intense for both parties — or so they say.