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Humans are so predictable sometimes.

Angry Single Blogger: Guess Which BORING Sex Position We All Love

Pornhub found that 43 percent of people love this sex position.

We all have our favorite sex positions. From vanilla ones like missionary to Kama Sutra-worthy ones that require skill, muscle and balance, there are hundreds of sexual positions from which to choose. If your life has been one of missionary, with the occasional doggy-style only on his birthday, it might be time to broaden your sexual position repertoire.

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"He destroyed my heart, and since he doesn't have a heart, I smashed his guitar."

Angry Single Blogger: How To Smash Your Ex's Stuff, Guilt-Free

The Anger Room lets you release your frustration, whether it's after a breakup or a tough work day.

It's embarrassing how many phones I've gone through because I threw them in a fit of rage over a certain guy. It's also nothing to brag about that I've gone through most of my glasses because I've smashed them to bits in anger over the same guy, then, because that wasn't enough, I jumped on his guitar in my favorite heels and destroyed it.

Angry Single Blogger: Please Don't Call Me! It's Called Texting.
"Oh, hi. How was my day? My day was FANTASTIC until you decided to call and ruin it."

Angry Single Blogger: Please Don't Call Me! It's Called Texting.

It's 2012, so please refrain from calling people you're dating "just to chat."

Recently here at YourTango, relationships expert Julianne Cantarella gave her advice about what to do when a guy prefers texting to calling you on the phone. Along with pointing out that if you're anti-texting you should address it early on in the relationship, she also stated the following: "Texting can create a false sense of intimacy allowing you to believe that you're in an exclusive relationship when you really aren't."

Mother's Day Got You Down? Celebrate Auntie's Day!
Auntie's Day: For those of us who don't have kids but still love them.

Mother's Day Got You Down? Celebrate Auntie's Day!

If you're not a mom, whether by choice or circumstance, you can still celebrate being a caretaker.

Even if you're like me and oblivious to Hallmark holidays, you should know that today is Mother's Day. I mean, duh. Look around at all the people carrying flowers and taking their moms out for meals.

Angry Single Blogger: Guess What, Homophobes? You're Probably Gay
All that homophobia is just proof that you're repressing some same-sex attraction.

Angry Single Blogger: Guess What, Homophobes? You're Probably Gay

That's right, haters. You're more likely to be gay than us tolerant folk.

Remember when former Republican senator Larry Craig, who was always so anti-gay rights, got caught "tapping" his foot in a men's bathroom, looking for some man-on-man love? Hypocrite! Even more well-known is Ted Haggard, the crazy gay-hating evangelical Christian who, despite his sermons that condemned homosexuality, was getting busy with a male escort and doing crystal meth to boot.

So You Say You've Found The G Spot, Huh, Scientists?
Scientists have located the G spot.

So You Say You've Found The G Spot, Huh, Scientists?

A study found the elusive G spot in the vagina of the cadaver of an 83-year-old woman.

I've been hearing about this elusive G spot in a woman's vagina long before I had even experienced penetration myself. I've had straight female friends who swear the only way they can orgasm is if their G spot is stimulated by a penis; lesbian friends who have been more than willing not to only show me where it is, but how with ample pressure it can induce the even more elusive "female ejaculation"; and of course, sexual partners who've claimed they can "totally feel your G spot now from this angle, baby."

11 Ways To Spring-Clean Your Single Life [PHOTOS]
Spring is here! Are you ready?

11 Ways To Spring-Clean Your Single Life [PHOTOS]

How I'm reinventing myself this spring, after a tumultuous period in my love life.

After a month abroad and a roller coaster of a love life in the last few years, I've decided to slow down and focus on me. Here are the 11 ways I'll be kicking my single life into gear this spring.

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"Fifty Shades of Grey" by E.L. James.

I'm A Feminist And I Love S&M

About 60% of my friends love spanking, so "Fifty Shades of Grey" taught me nothing new.

The book "Fifty Shades of Grey" has brought to the forefront of modern society and readers' minds the fact that some women (and men) enjoying BDSM play in their sex lives. SHOCKING, right? What sort of deviant wants to be spanked or tied up or told they're a "bad girl?" I'll tell you: about 60 percent of my friends — mostly women, but some men, too.

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A couple makes out at the Coachella music festival in Indio, CA.

3 Tips For Finding Love At Coachella

Don't have sex in a Port-a-Potty, and more tips for surviving the Coachella music festival.

I've been to Coachella once. It was back in the day when I could stomach outdoor concerts that consisted of thousands of people whacked out of their mind on drugs and alcohol, and each one of them hoping to get laid. I'm not judging these people, because I was one of them.

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What American men can learn about sex from their Parisian counterparts.

What American Men Can Learn From French Men About Sex

Angry Single Blogger is in Paris, where the men are a bit more upfront about what they want.

Ah! Here I am in Paris, my loves! I thought for the sake of my heart and sanity, I'd do an apartment swap with a woman here for a month and let the healing from my recent breakup begin. And it has begun… I think.

St. Patrick's Day
It's almost St. Patrick's Day. You know what that means.

St. Patrick's Day: Where Are America's Drunkest Singles?

With St. Paddy's day tomorrow, it's time to analyze just how much alcohol we single folks consume.

With St. Paddy's day tomorrow, it may just be time to analyze how much alcohol we single folk consume. Not because it's going to stop us in any way from getting good and sloshed this Saturday, but because the results of this recent HowAboutWe survey are really educational and enlightening!