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Couples Don't Grow More Alike Over Time

New research shows even after years of marriage, you still won't like baseball or beer.

We've got good news (for some of you at least): A new study reveals that contrary to popular belief, couples don't actually grow more alike over time—even after years and years of living together. What's more, the same study found that opposites don't really attract, after all.

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How To Tell If He Has A Temper

His ring finger indicates more than just his marital status.

A hormone known as androgen, which affects masculine traits like aggression and strength, can affect the development of a baby's finger length in the womb.

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Men Don't Hit Their Wives By Accident—They Plan It

Domestic abuse doesn't happen "by accident." A new study shows it's often premeditated.

A recent Israeli study concluded that domestic violence between couples typically occurs as a calculated decision from the inflicting partner. The aggressor typically knows what sort of consequences he or she will face and weighs it before acting out. "Someone who uses verbal violence might well move on over time to threatening physical attack, and from there it is only downhill towards acting on the threat," one of the researchers says. In other frank words, get out of the cycle now!

Girls Crave Closeness, Boys Crave Competition

Girls Crave Closeness, Boys Crave Competition

Why ladies can't help their sensitivity and men can't help their aggression.

Researchers for the National Institute of Mental Health analyzed the brain activity of adolescent boys and girls when confronted with possible friendship. The researchers found ladies automatically process information in a more emotional way, where with boys it's just the opposite.