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Couples: Will Living Together Ruin Your Relationship?

Men from different lovestages debate whether or not to move in with a girlfriend before marriage. Some think it spells disaster for the relationship while others are convinced it's a necessary step. Watch five guys discuss the upsides and downsides to sharing a home with your partner before saying "I do." Their answers might surprise you!

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Seeking Your Soulmate? Use The Secret

Arielle Ford discusses her book "The Soulmate Secret," which helps you find the love of your life using the law of attraction. Vision boards, positive thinking and lists help to keep your mind where your heart is. Watch and learn how to be soulmate-ready!

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Love Buzz

Harvard's Sex Blogger On Sex And The Spotlight

College Candy's interview with Harvard's sex blogger. Lena Chen is the author of, a blog about sex and dating at Harvard University. She started blogging back in 2006, sparking immediate controversy on campus and off. Lena received lots of attention for her saucy ways and has since been featured as a commentator on college sexuality in The New York Times, Newsweek, The Boston Globe, Salon, and Playboy Radio. She currently blogs at

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Love Buzz

Signs He's Just Not That Into You

When He's Just Not That Into You, Liz Tuccillo and Greg Behrendt's book about identifying dead-end relationships, debuted in 2006 it empowered confused women everywhere to move out and move on (well, at least it happened that way on Oprah). This "you go, girl" attitude arrived to the big screen Friday, February 6. The movie version has a celeb-studded cast including Drew Barrymore, Jennifer Aniston, Ben Affleck, Justin Long (the Mac guy and Drew's ex) and Scarlett Johansson.

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Love: Are You Chemically Compatible?

Dr. Helen Fisher, world renowned biological anthropologist, discusses her book Why Him? Why Her?, which explains the connection between biology and human attraction. She's identified four main personality types: Explorer, Builder, Director and Negotiator.

The New "Joy of Sex"

The New "Joy of Sex"

The classic sex manual "The Joy of Sex", which was originally released in 1972, is now available with updated illustrations, photographs, advice and insight about arousal, anatomy, pleasure, positions and sexual attitudes. British sexologist Susan Quilliam talks with YourTango about the new edition. The classic "hairy man" illustration is gone, but much of Dr. Alex Comfort's timeless sex advice and insight remains.

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The New "Joy of Sex" [VIDEO]

The classic sex manual The Joy of Sex, which was originally released in 1972, is now available with updated illustrations, advice and insight about sex, our bodies and sexual attitudes. British sexologist Susan Quilliam talks with YourTango about the new edition.

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You Don't "Luck Into" Love: How To Find It

The 90 Days program is a four-pronged approach. The first thing you do is identify and break your "Deadly Dating" patterns. Then you go on what I call a "Dating Program of Three," where you date three guys—no sex with any of them. Number three—you do the inner work where you work on your self-sabotaging ideas, your beliefs, like "I'm too old," "I'm too fat" or "There are no good men out there." You also cultivate what I call your "Diamond Self," which really helps you bust through shyness. The last thing that you do is you get yourself a "Love Mentor." Now this is somebody who is like a fairy godmother, who gives you the most profound support and really helps you find "the one." And all of these things work together and help you succeed in creating the love you really want.

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4 Steps To Finding Love [VIDEO]

Psychologist and relationship expert Diana Kirschner offers tips for finding true love. Her new book, Love in 90 Days, helps singles change their approach to dating and meeting "the one." Here, she shares four essential steps to meeting your match.

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"Important Artifacts" From A Relationship [VIDEO]

In the midst of a passionate love affair, even the smallest objects exchanged or discovered as a couple can have meaning. Art director and illustrator Leanne Shapton lets these objects do the talking in her illustrated novel, Important Artifacts and Personal Property from the Collection of Lenore Doolan and Harold Morris, Including Books, Street Fashion, and Jewelry. From gum wrappers and stolen salt shakers to love letters and birthday gifts, the photographed goods and their corresponding captions arranged as though in an auction catalogue tell the fictional story of a failed relationship. Learn more about Leanne Shapton and her clever relationship chronicle here.

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YOU Are the Experts

Qualified therapists can tell you what science and history have to say about various relationship issues.  But who knows more than someone who has been through the same exact issue as you?  I am, by no means, discouraging therapy as it’s an incredibly valuable tool for a healthy life.  However, there is tremendous value in a personal understanding of raw human behavior as it relates to a specific situation.  And by that I can be extremely helpful to talk to someone who has "been there".  We know that relationships can be very complicated and situations can get very specific.  Our goal at YourTango is to help you find each other and connect around common relationship issues (good and bad).  Comment, rate comments, use our forums and meet people who share your views and experiences.  Learn, share, connect and affirm...because after all, you are the experts.