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How to Spice Up Your Relationship

How to Spice Up Your Relationship

I get this e-mail from women all the time:   “How do I spice up my relationship?” Well, I say a little cayenne pepper, throw it all over his body, and lick it up. You’ll be spiced up the entire day.   Or if you have an aversion to licking his entire body full of cayenne pepper, here are some other ways to spice up a relationship. Ask yourself if this relationship really needs spicing up, or if you need another relationship?  

I used to feel alone

I used to feel alone

This week I have been in Miami. A bunch of my closest girl friends and I are taking a weekend away to connect and bond in ways you can’t always do when you are in your day to day.   For a part of my trip in Miami, I was all by myself. If this had been 3 years ago I would have felt terribly alone. (Yes, even if you are married you can feel alone!)  

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Why do I get so jealous?

Why do I get so jealous?

My crush and I were really close and then he started bad talking about me because I told people we were dating when we weren't we just fake dated because we were trying to get a guy to piss off cause he was annoying me. He was there for me a lot of times and everytime I try to apologize to him he doesn't even forgive me and almost every month I apologize because I really really miss our friendship. I try to tell him to forget the past and move on but he says no. I asked him once why and he said because I was annoying him.

I don’t have a college degree. Can I be a Coach?

I don’t have a college degree. Can I be a Coach?

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6 Ways To Weed Out The Weirdos In Online Dating

6 Ways To Weed Out The Weirdos In Online Dating

Fine tune your "Crazy Radar" and avoid wasting time on impostors with this online dating checklist.

  It's safe to say that, for the most part, everyone has the same general fear when it comes to online dating. The biggest concern is usually if the person on the other side of the Internet will match their profile. Thankfully in this day and age, technology has made it a little bit easier for you to help ensure you are meeting is actually the person in the picture.

Online Dating Dilemma: Why Haven't They Texted Me?

Online Dating Dilemma: Why Haven't They Texted Me?

You've made a connection but now there's no communication. Wondering why? These answers might help.

The truth is you never know and in some cases you never know the answers to the many “why” questions that are associated with online dating. The difference between online dating and meeting someone at a bar is the personal interaction which instantly develops a relationship. When you meet someone online you are simply a number until the first meeting.  So when someone never texts you but will always respond when you text, when someone just randomly stops responding after weeks of great conversation, and when someone blows off your plans three or four times… You si

Do quality men event exist?

Do quality men event exist?

For Valentine’s Day, Hemal was out of town. He travels off to Toronto every week for work. He flew in last Friday, the day after V-day, and he had bought tickets to see the Broadway musical, Wicked. It was off the hook! I loved the musical. All I had to say is “we aren’t doing anything romantic” and boom! He is booking tickets! Yes, I find a musical romantic. However, it wasn’t always like this…  

Is Living Single & Alone Bad for Your Health?

Is Living Single & Alone Bad for Your Health?

A Canadian study determines living alone can be bad for your health.

Living alone could be harmful to your health – in fact it could lead to you dying sooner than you would if you were in a relationship. That’s the shock finding of FindYourPlusOne.com's dating site technology provider, Atwood Technology, which has just completed an investigation into marriage, divorce, living alone and mortality. The dating site also investigated whether more Canadians were living alone than their American counterparts and how divorce rates in the United States compared with those of Canada.

How Your "Tomorrow Me" Can Help You Today!

How Your "Tomorrow Me" Can Help You Today!

Find your own clear, infallible voice that helps you make your best decisions.

Have you ever heard the phrase “Keep doing what you’re doing, get more of what you got,” made popular by Werner Erhard? Either way, you will soon see why this truth begs an introduction to what I call your “tomorrow me.” That’s the YOU that’s here today representing the you of tomorrow (and the next day, and so on).

Is It Considered Cheap To Use A Coupon On A Date?

Is It Considered Cheap To Use A Coupon On A Date?

"In this economy",almost everyone is saving money.Is it a faux pas to use a coupon on a date?

Dating can be expensive. First, you invest time to find someone to ask out. Then, once you have a date, you may spend money on your appearance - a new hair cut, eyebrow wax, manicure, pedicure or a new outfit. If you are a single parent, factor in the cost of a babysitter and snack food for the kids. It's very possible you may have spent a couple hundred dollars before you've even gone on your date.