Two Legendary Cosmo Editors In Exclusive Q&A

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Two Legendary Cosmo Editors In Exclusive Q&A
Legendary Cosmo editors Bonnie Fuller and Helen Gurley Brown with advice on sex, love and career.

6) QUESTION: Is it wrong that sleeping with married men turns me on? I had an affair with a married friend not long ago and it was hotter than hell. - torrieg

ANSWER: It isn't wrong to be turned on by anybody—if that's how you feel, that's how you feel. You have to make up your own mind about what you're comfortable with. I don't think it's such a bad thing. I had friendships with men who were married. What's a bad girl? Having sex with lots of men you're not married to, doesn't make you a bad girl, just an experienced girl. Give your own advice: Is it wrong that sleeping with married men turns me on?

7) QUESTION: How often should I see a guy I'm dating during the week? I don't want to smother him. - rach6280

ANSWER: It's different for each couple—you have to work at it. But if you like him a lot, see him. I assume if a guy feels smothered, he'll let you know. Give your own advice: How often should I see the guy I'm dating during the week?

8) QUESTION: I've come to the decision that my marriage is doomed and I want to end it. But I have no idea of how to break it to my husband. He'll be devastated. How should I do it? - g

ANSWER: You need to sit down with your husband and let him know that your relationship isn't that good and that you need to decide together what you should do. If you don't love or like your husband anymore, you can't stay in a bad relationship just because you feel guilty—you'll be too unhappy. You may need to go together to get some professional help—i.e. a marriage therapist—to help you through it.

9) QUESTION: Should I start a relationship with a guy at work? There is this guy at work that I have amazing chemistry with, but is it wrong to follow through on it? - BrennaLu