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A look into the Aries personality.
By Isabell Tenorio — Written on Sep 04, 2020
Why would anyone dislike Aries? Could the disdain have something to do with the Ram's zodiac sign?
Some people are easy to adore, and others so natural to hate. Why would anyone think an Aries is overall just someone who is terrible to be around?
Why Aries is the most hated zodiac sign can be explained through astrology.
Aries is the first of all zodiac signs and ruled by the planet of war — Mars.
Mars in astrology is a malefic zodiac sign, and when you deal with the Ram, you definitely don't want to experience their horns.
It's bad to be filled with hatred because of a person’s Aries zodiac sign. It sounds silly that when someone meets an Aries sign and they automatically put up walls and walk away.
Most of the time, Aries people can be so like their zodiac sign that when dislike seems less silly.
But, why do people hate Aries? What is it about their astrology or personality traits that make them unbearable to be around?
Here's why Aries is one of the most hated signs, per astrology:
People hate Aries because of their confidence.
Aries are great at being leaders and are very passionate when it comes to love. However, they can appear selfish when their headstrong ways have them fixed on a goal.
A person might think that Aries views themselves as the center of the universe because they can be blunt when no one asked for their opinion.
Although they are hard workers and will do their best to reach all of their goals, Aries will tend to only focus on the goal and not think about anyone else. This selfishness also brings in wanting others to make them feel better about themselves.
People hate Aries because of misunderstood anger.
Since they are a fire sign, Aries can appear to jump to conclusions. Yes, it's true that some Aries have short tempers, but doesn't everyone? Aries, like everyone else, doesn’t like to be told they are wrong.
People hate Aries's impatience.
In relationships, they like to be upfront about their feelings, but sometimes they don’t read the room and just blurt something out. This is also where their selfishness comes into play, as they just want to tell their feelings without thinking of those close to them.
Aries are hated for their focus.
Aries are focused on their goals and at times, it consumes them.
Aries are strong, fierce and independent. They are the go-getters of the zodiac sign, and people who can't handle this fire sign size it up into one word 'hate', but that's not what it is at all.
An Aries will keep to a goal no matter what, even if it includes ignoring or hurting others in the process. They have a one-track mind, and that means everything else is just in the way of their success.
Aries is so hated because of their relationships.
Along with their good qualities comes their bad, and sometimes it ruins relationships with good people.
Starting with their need to be in charge, which isn’t a surprise as they have a leadership mentality. They do this in order to feel in charge of their lives, not the other way around.
Their bluntness can sometimes cause them to be very open about their feelings, and their accidental jumping to conclusions causes them to move fast with the relationship. Some people are fine with this, but for others, they aren’t really wanting to hear wedding bells by the end of the week.
Although they have a very nonchalant demeanor that rolls off them like fog on a body of water, they can get jealous very easily. Even if their partner is just asking for directions if an Aries senses any type of flirting they are ready to leave.
And finally, they are very fast-paced in life, hence the jumping to conclusions and wanting to move fast in relationships. But if you aren’t on the same page and show signs of being “weak”, they shut down can start to get bored with them.
Although their bad qualities are more prominent, they have good qualities that balance them out
Aries are great leaders, as they have that goal-oriented personality. Because of this and their confidence, they are able to lead people to victory.
They are very fearless and have a head-on nature. This helps them to be brave and not to back down when things look difficult.
Loyalty never leaves their mind, and they always show it. No matter what, they are always on your side.
When it comes to seeing if the glass is half empty or half full, Aries always see the glass as half full. Moving on from the past and looking forward to the future is what gets them going.
And surprisingly enough with their bluntness and selfish mindset, they are very kind to those who are very close to them. Sometimes the tough bull can have a soft side.
Now maybe you have interacted with an Aries and haven’t noticed any of the bad qualities. Sometimes people surprise you and aren’t like their zodiac sign at all.
These are just some reasons as to why those who are an Aries act the way they do. Keep in mind, not everyone is the same.
But if you have interacted with an Aries and by the end of this article you now understand why they were the way they were, then you’re welcome. Hopefully, this helped you to prepare how to approach them from now on.
And if you are an Aries reading this, maybe this has opened your eyes and you decide to take fate into your own hands. We might be certain zodiac signs, but we don’t have to fall into what others think of us.
Isabell Tenorio is a writer who covers astrology, pop culture, love and relationship topics.