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You don't have to say anything, they know exactly what you need.
By Christine Schoenwald — Written on Sep 05, 2017
Sexual soulmates. Do such people even exist? Of course, they do, and if you have one, you should feel extremely lucky. Your horoscope will tell you the same thing, too.
When you find a sexual soulmate, it goes beyond just having sexual chemistry with someone. Not only are you instantly attracted to them, they seem to know exactly what you want and what you like without you telling them and they like the same things too.
Sexual soulmates, like regular soulmates, go together well, at least in the bedroom.
Check out the video below to see how each zodiac sign has sex:
Mind-blowing electric sex is harder to find than you might think. You could have good sex with someone but it’s different than when you have sex with your sexual soulmate because sex with them is incredible.
It’s not just a question of finding someone who can give you multiple orgasms or who knows all your most sensitive spots; a sexual soulmate instinctively knows exactly what to do and when. You never get bored with your sexual soulmate and the intense sexual dynamic between the two of you never dies, it’s always there just beneath the surface.
Sometimes you can get confused and think that because this person knows how to work your body and is always satisfying that it’s love, but that’s not necessarily true. It would be amazing if your sexual soulmate and your regular soulmate were one in the same but that’s a very rare occurrence.
Have you ever an ex that no matter how much they may have annoyed you, it was hard to resist having sex with them, because it was always so good? You could be in a happy relationship with someone else but the pull they had because of how amazing sex was with your ex was beyond your ability to say no.
When you have sex with a sexual soulmate you understand how some people equate sex with a religious experience — it’s that profound. Here are the zodiac signs that make the best sexual soulmates and how you know he’s yours.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
You're both always up for sex and you want it every which way you can get it. Sex with the two of you is constantly evolving and experimenting. You'll try anything at least once and if you really like it, you'll rotate it back in. You have extremely high energy sex and when you're done, it feels as if you've had quite the workout. Cuddling isn't for you; you want some exciting, steamy, blood pumping sex — all the time.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
Even when you're not having sex, you can't stop touching each other; it's as the two of you are magnetized. If you're out to dinner or at a show, your hands and fingers are exploring and you usually find yourselves sitting closer than you have to. If you were both blindfolded in a room, your bodies would gravitate towards each other.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
When you first had sex, you thought it was the best ever and could never be topped, but each time you're together, it's as if you set a new record of amazing toe-curling sex. It blows your mind how incredible the sex is and you keep thinking that eventually it will level off but it never does, it just gets better and better.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
It doesn't matter how out there your sexual request might be or how strange your sexual fantasies are, he never judges you. You love being able to explore your true sexual nature without having to censor yourself. If he's not into it, he doesn't make you feel like a freak, he just finds something for the two of you that is equally as satisfying. His lack of judgment makes him one of the zodiac signs that make the best sexual soulmates.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
He adores you and makes you feel as if you're the hottest woman ever. His adoration makes you feel comfortable enough to really let go. You don't have to worry that your face gets twisted when you orgasm or concern yourself with the various parts of your body that you don't like. It's not about perfection, it's about lust and desire and being a sexual being. He helps you to forget about everything except pleasure.
Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
It's challenging for you to find people with the same fetishes and tastes as you but your sexual soulmate matches you, kink for kink. Your kink may be vanilla by some standards or on the extreme side, but your sexual soulmate gives you what you need when you need it, and when you're desperate to have it.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
Your sexual soulmate is open to suggestions. Sometimes with other partners, you hold back on what you want or how you want them to do something, but with a sexual soulmate, they're as invested in your orgasm as they are in their own. They want to know exactly how they should touch you or that you don't want to do that crazy position because it hurts your lower back. Your sexual soulmate lets you be in charge of getting sex exactly as you want it.
Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
It's as simple as this: your sexual soulmate always gets you off. No question, no struggle, no fail — just orgasm after orgasm until you can barely move. And when you're ready, they're good to go. They're like a vibrator in human form. They're extremely tuned into your own unique sexual frequency that's it not difficult for them to sexually satisfy you. You sometimes wonder if they were specially created for you.
Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
Your sexual soulmate is very generous: with their body, with their time, and with their attention. They seem to love nothing better than to give to you and make sure your needs are taken care of. The best part (besides making you feel so satisfied) is that they expect nothing in return. They don't want any commitment on your part nor do they want to change you in any way; they just want to have intensely hot sex with you.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
Sometimes you can be somewhat stiff and reserved but your sexual soulmate always makes you feel sexy. You can be in yoga pants and a t-shirt and they make you feel as if you're the hottest woman on the planet. When you do put on some lingerie, they are practically overcome with lust.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
You don't have to pretend to be anything that you're not with your sexual soulmate. If you're feeling more like a cuddly cat than a sex kitten, they'll still want you. They always know how to make you feel better as if sex with them has healing properties. If you have a headache or just aren't feeling that sexy and you have sex, you'll be surprised at how much better you feel. Who knew sex could be so good for you?
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
You and your sexual soulmate trust and respect each other. You don't have to worry that your sexual soulmate is taking advantage of your selfless nature for they're 100 percent invested in your pleasure. You're don't have to be on guard with them; you know that they're not using you just for sex, they want to give as much as receive and they won't force you to do anything you're not comfortable in doing.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One
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Christine Schoenwald is a writer, performer, and teacher who loves writing and performing personal narratives. She's had pieces in The Los Angeles Times, Salon, Woman's Day, Purple Clover, Bustle, and is a regular contributor to Ravishly and YourTango. Check out her website or her Facebook page.
