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Even when your true love is far, far away ...
By Slutty Girl Problems — Written on Apr 16, 2019
Long distance relationships can be agonizingly lonely, but being far apart doesn’t have to separate either of you from your relationship.
Although it takes a special commitment and bond to make a long distance relationship work, you can learn how to make the time apart go by more quickly until you’re back together again.
All it takes is paying attention to some sexy tips and super smart relationship advice.
If you want to know how to make a long distance relationship work and continue building intimacy even when there's a significant amount of distance between you and your true love, here are the 16 best sex tips and ideas for things you can do in order to stay connected and make sure your LDR withstands the tests of time.
1. Explore your fantasies.
Time apart is perfect for discussing your innermost desires with no pressure (and in a long distance relationship, you have plenty of time apart!).
You can candidly express your fantasies without fear of judgment or awkward glances. Start by suggesting something you’d like to try, and see what your partner would love to experience in return!
2. Share something sexy.
Did you find a hot clip that turns you on or stumble across a sex tip you can’t wait to try? Instantly send the link to your partner!
It will let them know you’re thinking about staying intimate with them, even if it’s just a hot pic that got your motors going.
3. Make a naughty coupon book.
Get out your markers and paper and get ready to be crafty with a twist!
Start your coupon book with cute and romantic suggestions like kissing, caressing, and massaging. Then progress to bubble baths, edible treats, and even a spanking. Send the coupon book to your long distance lover with a promise to try each one.
4. Step up your sexting game.
You don’t need to be in a relationship in order to sext with someone, but doing so is definitely more important when it’s the only action you’re getting!
Let your partner know what you’d love to do to them and how incredible their hands and tongue would feel on your favorite body parts ...
5. Send unexpected gifts.
A little special something lets your honey know you’re thinking about them. Try chocolate, lingerie, or a new toy. Even a heartfelt, sensual, loving letter can be a special and intimate surprise.
It will definitely be the highlight of your partner’s day — or even their week!
6. Try out long distance stripping and virtual games.
Whether by phone or webcam, long distance strip games are a great way to feel like you’re getting naughty right there with each other.
It could even be virtual strip poker, truth or dare, or a game where you guess facts about the other person. Whatever you choose, get ready to go bare!
7. Enjoy some hot phone sex.
Even better than sexting is an erotic phone call where you can hear your partner’s moans of pleasure as you chat about your fantasies and desires while acting them out in your imaginations.
Close your eyes and you’ll be transported to your partner’s bed, where you just may start to think that your own touches are coming from them.
8. Put on a lingerie photo shoot.
Go to a classy lingerie boutique or the lingerie department of your local mall and have a window shopping spree where you try on all your favorites ... then snap a few well-posed selfies of each while you’re in the dressing room!
Send your favorite pics to your partner and then return to buy the piece that makes him swoon the most!
9. Send each other spontaneous commands.
If you’re into power exchange and controlling each other’s pleasure, try texting little commands to each other throughout the week.
It could be something simple like, “Wear your sexiest panties and show me tonight,” or something even naughtier like, “Take 5 minutes to leave work and play with yourself in the bathroom while you think about me." This is guaranteed to ignite both of your spontaneous fires!
10. Exchange sexy SnapChat stories.
Instead of sending another double-chin selfie, surprise your partner with something more cheeky and naughty to the person you're in a long distance relationship with.
It could be simple cleavage shot, an up-skirt angle, or an all-out self-portrait with your wearing some stunning lingerie. Try sending your snaps while he’s at work for extra taboo excitement!
11. Record sexy videos.
It doesn’t have to be XXX graphic or porn-worthy, but a simple strip tease or sensual, suggestive clip can ignite your partner’s imagination and keep them wanting more.
Try something simple and sweet like licking your lips and winking if you want to keep it light and playful.
12. Write erotic stories.
Practice your literary skills with by composing and adventure in erotica featuring you, your lover, and any of the fantasies you’d love to try!
You may not be a wordsmith, but getting those sexy ideas out on paper can be exciting and eye-opening. Share them with your partner for some late night reading and conversation by phone or FaceTime.
13. Embrace Skype and/or FaceTime sex.
If simply hearing your partner’s voice on the phone isn't enough to keep you satisfied, graduate to the next level — sex over Skype — where you can see your partner getting off in real time.
There’s nothing better than seeing your partner’s "O" face, especially when you know it's all because of you.
14. Have long distance "date nights."
Set a time when you will both sit down in front of a webcam to have dinner, chat and watch a movie together.
It’s a simple, but effective way to connect. And if you want to turn up the heat, incorporate any of the other sexy surprises already suggested in this list into your night cap!
15. Try out remote-control sex toys for couples.
There are many toys out there that can be controlled via smart phone, and some are even controlled by the other person's toy!
You’ll feel your partner’s motions and get to control their sensations if there were no distance between you at all.
16. Set a date to reunite.
Decide which fantasies you want to knock off your bucket lists and set a date to reunite with each other.
Chat about your plans for what you will beforehand in order to build the anticipation over time ... and keep a few secret from each other so you can enjoy additional surprises as the spontaneous whim strikes!
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This article was originally published at Slutty Girl Problems. Reprinted with permission from the author.