10 Things Your Girlfriend Or Wife Is ALWAYS Thinking — But Won’t Tell You

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10 Things Your Girlfriend Is Thinking, But Won’t Tell You
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"I want to feel special."

Women are always thinking; it’s in our nature. We overthink and we can’t help it. There are so many things your girlfriend wants to tell you but doesn’t because she cares about you and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.  

That's about to change because what women really think about men might surprise you. And all the relationship advice in the world won't help you as much as revealing these 10 things women wish we could say without the sugar-coating.

1. "You need new clothes."

A lot of men are handsome, smart, accomplished, and have their life together. But they don’t dress like it and it drives us crazy. We want your clothes to portray how amazing you are. You don’t need to look like you just stepped out of GQ, but we would like it if you tried to be a little more fashionable.

2. "You’re messy."

No one is perfect. Women don’t want to date an OCD neat freak. We don’t expect your fridge to be spotless or your t-shirts to be folded in a certain way. That would just be weird. We want the bare minimum, really, just the basics. So, here’s a hint: we hate it when you leave the toilet seat up and we would like you to be a bit tidier in general.

3. "Where’s the romance?"

As women, we want the romance. We love being wooed. We appreciate when you do things that make us feel special. Schedule a date night, bring us chocolate, send us flowers. We notice all of the little things you do and we so appreciate them.

4. "I want foreplay."

Foreplay is one of our favorite things. It gets us in the mood — literally! Women adore being kissed, explored, and caressed. Spend some time enjoying our bodies, please!

5. "Can you make the plans?"

We love it when you plan. Planning is sexy. Every woman wants to date a man who plans and takes charge. Organizing a date is an easy way to make us happy. As long as you arrange it, we’re thrilled to be doing almost anything with you.

6. "I want more sex." 

Yes, that’s right, we crave more sex. Women are sexual, too. We want to enjoy ourselves just as much as you do. We like to feel wanted and needed. We miss the days when you couldn’t keep your hands off of us!

7. "I need alone time."

Women like girls nights and “me time.” We need time for ourselves. Sometimes we just want to be lazy and sit on our couch. We like to watch chick flicks, make healthy dinners, and relax. We want to tell you that we need more alone time, but we don’t want to offend you.

8. "My clock is ticking."

Our marriage and baby clocks are always ticking. Does this mean that we’re desperate to get married and have babies? Absolutely not!! We have no desire to tie the knot to an average Joe. We’re looking to get married when we meet someone amazing that we can’t live without.

But when we’re over the age of 25, we don’t need to date you for 5 years before we know it’s right. We have a time frame and we really want you to stick to it.

9. "I want to feel special."

We’re overjoyed when you make an effort. Women need to feel like they’re important to you. Make your woman feel like she’s a priority, then you'll understand what women really think about men.

10. "Make it up to me."

When we’re mad at you, we’re usually thinking pretty irrationally. So, if you’re in the doghouse, you’re going to need to redeem yourself. I recommend oral sex as your get out of jail free card. It works like a charm 98 percent of the time. If all else fails, a pair of Louboutins is always a good idea.

This article was originally published at Confessions Of A Matchmaker. Reprinted with permission from the author.

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