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By Kelcey Connors — Written on Jul 14, 2017
Relationships can be rough, especially when they’re just starting and are brand new.
You think you've found the one but the two of you don't know too much about each other. And learning a lot of the little things that each other does will definitely make or break the relationship.
Do you fight over where to go out to eat every time? Can you stand each others friends? You are adventurous and want to try new things while they're good with what has been working, but maybe you find out you're just not compatible at all.
These are some pretty obvious signs that maybe the relationship is not meant to be. And when a break-up is early on, and mutual, chances are neither one of you will walk away completely heartbroken —if you do it RIGHT.
But when you have been committed to the relationship for a bit longer, and think that everything is going great (because it pretty much is), heart-break can sneak up out of nowhere and destroy what the two of you have.
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Other things that can break a relationship, or someone's heart, are not so obvious.
It may be true that girls read a lot more into little things than boys do during the relationship, and a lot of times this might mean that they are the ones who end up heartbroken. The thing is, the guys might not even know what they’re doing that are breaking their girls hearts, or that they’re hearts are even breaking to begin with!
Guys might not realize he values work more than he is into the relationship, or that he is making his significant other feel insecure about something.
And maybe he doesn't realize this because he is not doing this intentionally, and it all has to do with when he was born.
Maybe astrological signs determine how we go about breaking someone else's heart — even if we don't do so intentionally. Sometimes we're built differently than the partners we're with, and those differences can lead to a lot of pain and resentment.
So, it is important to be more aware of what you're doing, and realizing what might be hurting the person you care about (even if you don't plan on being together forever).
Knowing how you’re breaking her heart according to your zodiac sign might mean you can stop it.
Aries (March 21- April 19)
At the beginning of your relationship, everything is going great and you think your in a good and comfortable place with each other.
This leads to you relaxing a bit and putting other things such as hanging with friends or a night out before working on your new relationship.
You’ll end up breaking her heart because she will believe you're no longer interested in the relationship and you’re slowly but surely moving on from her.
READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries (As Written By An Aries)
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
Taurus naturally loves material possessions, and sometimes that create some tension in his relationships.
While you don't have to buy your significant other expensive gifts all the time, sometimes a nice surprise gift is greatly appreciated. Even flowers can make a day.
But Taurus wants to save that money for himself, breaking the girls heart when she realizes that he values material things more than their relationship.
READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus (As Written By A Taurus)
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
Gemini does not like commitment, which is fine until you’ve been casual dating someone for a while and they’re ready to commit more than you are.
Being at two different places in the relationship creates a lot of tension and someone usually ends up hurt.
In this case, it will be her when you tell her you have no interest in deepening the relationship.
READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini (As Written By One)
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Fights happen, they happen to everyone. Some are small and barely register since the fight is over almost before it began.
Other fights, though, are days long and are a make or break situation. Each one of you is always waiting and wondering to see who is going to be the first one to apologize.
Well, she ends up heartbroken because no matter the magnitude of your disagreement, because you tend to be passive-aggressive and refuse to let things go. The two of you never move past anything.
READ: 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer (As Written By A Cancer)
Leo (July 23 - August 22)
Leo seems to always be in relationships. One ends and they seem to go directly into another one.
No one ever thinks anything of it until they’re the ones in the relationship with him.
Soon enough, these partners realize that Leo may not be in love with them, but rather with the idea of being in the relationship and having people to show off and do things with.
READ: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo (As Written By A Leo)
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
Virgo pays close attention to details, but the ones that they notice the most are what is going wrong in their relationships.
Even though there may be a million things going right, he will dwell on everything he feels is going wrong.
Not only will he break the girls heart by pointing out everything wrong in their relationship, but even making her feel like it’s possibly her fault.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
Libra (September 23 - October 22)
Successful relationships are all about equally giving and taking. This means listening to each others problems, doing favors for each other and all around supporting each other.
While she is constantly there for Libra, she soon realizes that he seems to love and care for himself way more than he will ever love her or care about the relationship.
While there are times you need to put yourself first, it will not be a successful relationship in the long run.
READ: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra (As Written By A Libra)
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
Relationships can bee scary because it means you are letting someone get to know you really personally, but ideally you will be comfortable opening up to them because you care about them and they do the same.
Scorpio finds it hard to open up and let the other person know them and love them completely though.
This breaks her heart because she then feels like you don't trust her enough to let her love you completely.
READ: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
Sagittarius is never sure what he wants in life and with love. This frustrates not only him, but the person he's in a relationship with too.
Sagittarius’ constant uncertainty leaves his significant other unsure of where their relationship stands, and if she asks, she’ll never get a straight answer from him.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius (As Written By One)
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
Capricorn is always chasing success and will do whatever he thinks will make him happiest. And even though his relationship does make him happy,he will put his focus and energy into other things before he focuses on his love life.
His significant other is often left upset in this situation because she is well aware that he finds work more important than her another relationship.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn (As Written By One)
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
Aquarius likes to be busy and commits to tons of different obligations, not leaving much time for his relationship. And when he is with his significant other, he doesn't seem to be completely there.
He’s looking at his phone or daydreaming about something else.
This leaves her heartbroken because he always seems to be in a different world and seems to lack values about their relationship.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius (As Written By One)
Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
Sometimes being in a relationship with Pisces is like babysitting. He can act so childish and refuse to take responsibility for what they have done wrong.
This becomes a huge issue when something happens and his girlfriend is left upset and completely heartbroken.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces (As Written By A Pisces)