What Your Friends Secretly HATE About You, Per Your Zodiac Sign

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It's not their favorite thing about you.

What would we do without our friends? They love us, support us, and they have our backs.  For some people, their friends are more important than their family. Hell, they are their family.

You have long-time friends that you’ve known of your life, and there are friends you only recently met but it feels as if you've known them for years. Some friends will be in your life forever, while others are only in your life for a relatively short time to teach you a lesson or help you out with a particular difficulty.

We like to think that there’s nothing that our friends don’t like about us, but even the most accepting friend probably finds one, two or ten things about you annoying or hard to take. It’s the fact that our friends like us despite our flaws and the mistakes we make that makes friendships so special.

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A true friend will not judge and won’t hold past mistakes and failings against you. The history the two of you share remains unchanging but the relationship still grows and hopefully, deepens.

There’s something immensely satisfying about connecting with an old friend after some time apart and feeling as if you can just pick up where you left off.

One of the earmarks of a great friendship is the fact that your friend can despise some personality trait or quality that you have but still love the whole of you as a person. It’s the accepting of the good and the bad that makes a real friendship.

No one likes everything about everybody but when you’re able to overlook mistakes or negative characteristics that your friend has, then you’re a true friend. Your friend probably won’t tell you to your face that they hate the way you eat spaghetti and may avoid going out to dinner with you at Italian restaurants but when you have amazing news, they’ll cheer for you, and when you're heartbroken, they’ll comfort you.

Here are the zodiac signs' worst qualities and what their friends secretly despise about them .

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
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Can you cool your jets for one second? Your friends can't stand how impatient you are and how quickly you go from one activity to another. Not everybody has your high energy; in fact, some people need a little bit of recovery time. It's as if you only have a few days to live and you must cram everything in. But you do things so fast, you may not be getting everything out of the experience that you could. You can be exhausting for your friends.

 

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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
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You light up every room you enter and thank goodness that you're so special because your extreme stubbornness can be hard to take. Your friends hate how it has to be your way or no way at all. Do you even know what the word compromise means? Because you sure don't practice it. Once you dig your heels in on an issue, there's no way to get you to change your mind, which is why healthy discussions are not an option for you.

 

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GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
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You're super-fun which is great because your friends hate it when you're being flaky and/or unreliable. Is there such a thing as "Gemini Time"? Because you seem to adhere to your own timetable that has nothing to do with anybody else. You're often late (when you bother to show up at all) so your friends give you a different meet time than anybody else. They'll tell you an earlier time and you'll still be late, just not as late as you would be.

 

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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
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Your friends hate how pessimistic you can be, especially when you're going through a breakup. Look, it sucks to get your heart broken but that doesn't mean that everything is negative and wrong for everybody. You need to look on the bright side even when you're hurting; in fact, by focusing on what's good in your life, you'll be able to heal much faster.

 

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LEO (July 23 - August 22)
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Your friends hate it when you think you're not getting enough attention (do you ever get enough attention?) and so you pout. Acting like a spoiled child isn't winning you any points. Sometimes in life, other people need to be the center of attention. I know it's so unfair but that's life. Try to be as generous with your consideration as you are with everything else.

 

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VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
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Your friends do not enjoy when you get so focused on small details that you freak out about the tiniest things. It seems like you're gunning to have a hissy fit. You can't expect everything to be perfect and spotless and blowing up about such trivial things as spots on your glassware isn't fun to watch.

 

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
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Your friends hate it when you get insecure. It's one thing to have momentary doubts about yourself or your relationship but you take it to the extreme, making this one of your zodiac sign's worst qualities. You're always worried that you're going to do something to cause your bae to take off and leave you or that you're not beautiful enough to keep them. Try to appreciate all the wonderful gifts you've been given and appreciate this moment rather than anticipating gloom and doom in your relationship.

 

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SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
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Your friends hate how manipulative you can get. Here's a thought: instead of trying to trick your friend into doing something for you, why not just ask them nicely? Perhaps you can offer them something in return? People don't like feeling played and that includes your friends. You prize honesty, so why not see how it works when you actually use it.

 

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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
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Your friends hate how tactless you can be. You don't want to be hurtful but it's as if you have no filter and the meanest things come out of your mouth. Try to be more thoughtful and think about the power that your words have. You might not be so quick as to say whatever enters your head to say. 

 

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CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
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Your friends hate how closed off you can be. They know you have trust issues but they still should be able to earn your trust at some point. However, it seems to be an arduous process to get you to open up and let people in, and once they're in there's no guarantee that you'll let down your guard.

 

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AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
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Your friends hate how you get when someone upsets you; you don't deal with your emotions in a healthy, adult way, you just take off. You simply won't deal or do the work to make things better. Ultimately, the problem when not dealt with will grow and worsen but this doesn't seem to sink in. All you care about is getting away from the problem, no matter what the end results are.

 

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PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
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Your friends hate how you're easily led by others. You like it when someone else takes control and makes the decisions. You're quite happy as a follower but you tend to put your faith into people and causes that don't really deserve it. You blindly get involved in things like pyramid schemes and telephone scams. It's wonderful you're so trusting and have such a big heart but you need to make smarter decisions.

 

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