The Thing That Turns You Off IMMEDIATELY, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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You know that feeling when you’re just starting a relationship with someone and it seems as if everything they do is charming and delightful, but then one day they do something so vile and disgusting that all those good feelings you had for them are gone in an instant?

We’ve all been there because we all have turn-offs, behaviors, and habits of other people that we just can’t get past. If someone does something so repelling that it changes how you feel about them, it can be impossible to ever see them in the same light that we saw them before.

It can be somewhat disheartening when you think you’ve found the one and then you find out they like to clip their toenails in the kitchen before breakfast or that they’re mean to old people. It’s not a matter of forgiveness because this behavior is a personality flaw and one that they might not even think is that bad.

 

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Everyone has human stuff that we need to live with. No one is perfect but it’s when we take these behaviors and amp them up that really makes things complicated. You might be okay with your boyfriend belching but is it still okay when he belches at the dinner table with your parents? Is it a dealbreaker?

Turn-offs can be behaviors, attitudes, and habits. There are times when even if you tell the person how disturbed you are by their behavior and they promise to change, it’s too late the damage has been done. You’ll never be able to look at them in the same way again.

They haven’t just fallen from grace, they’ve fallen and crushed some innocent bystanders on their way down. Sometimes turn-offs are obvious like someone who picks their nose, but other times turn-offs are subtle such as someone who doesn't like puppies.

Here’s what turns you off, based on your zodiac sign.

 

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
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If someone tries to control you or change you, you're immediately turned off. You're an independent thinker and you don't do well when someone tries to convince you to change your mind or to do something just because they want you to do it. If you get even the smallest indication that someone is a control freak, you'll be turned off so fast, they won't know what hit them.

 

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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
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If you witness someone losing control and having a complete meltdown, you'll be instantly turned off. You just can't deal with that kind of overly emotional display. You can't stand people who thrive on drama and who will rant and rave just for attention. If they really want to kill any attraction you may have for them, all they need to do is complain, a lot. You like for people to deal with their own grievances and leave you out of it.

 

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GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
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You will instantly lose your lady boner if your date shoots down every idea you have to do something fun. If all they want to do is hang out at home, watching bad TV, they're not for you. If they're not spontaneous and up to have a good time, then why should you waste your time with them?

 

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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
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If you're opening your heart to someone and they're a complete dick, then that's a major turn-off. They should at least act as if they care. You don't do robots, assh*les, or any emotionless idiot. You want your sex to be an expression of caring as well as a sexual release.

 

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LEO (July 23 - August 22)
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What turns you off is negativity. If someone is a constant downer and someone who seems to find fault with your ideas and dreams, then they're not going to get very far with you. You're optimistic and hopeful, you don't want to be brought down by pessimism and cynicism. 

 

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VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
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If you went to a potential lover's apartment and it was a total mess, you'd be instantly turned off. If there were dirty dishes with old food on it, dust, dirty clothes on every surface, and general disorder, you not only wouldn't have sex with them, you might even throw up from being so disgusted.

 

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
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You get turned off by people who argue for fun, who enjoy conflict, and are overly confrontational. You don't find overt-aggressiveness sexy at all. They can be dominant, masculine, and even assertive but if you feel like they're attacking you in any way, there's no chance that you'll find them attractive.

 

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SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
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You could be hot and heavy with someone but if you catch them in a lie, all that passionate will disappear. You don't find liars attractive or hot in the least. If they lie to you or you witness them lie, they'll be instantly dead to you and you're not likely to change your mind.

 

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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
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You get turned off by people who are dull and have no sense of humor. You get turned on not only by physical appearance but by someone's big brain. If they have no interests in life and no appreciation for your wit, there's no way you'd be attracted to them. You probably wouldn't even want to have them in your life at all.

 

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CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
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You get turned off by someone who is always acting as if they're onstage and are never real. You can't stand show-offs and people who are extremely self-centered. You need to feel that you're an active participant, not an audience member.

 

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AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
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You are immediately turned off by someone who is possessive and clingy. If you have one date with someone and they start talking about having a future with you, you're pretty much done. If they aren't independent and don't have an original thought in their head, there's no way you'd be attracted to them. 

 

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PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
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You are turned off by people who are unkind, especially to animals. If you see your date screaming at their dog or kicking a cat, you not only won't be attracted to them, you'll hate them and will internally chastise yourself for ever thinking you could have sex with them. 

 

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