What You Hate MOST About Relationships, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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You really hate this.

No matter how well you do in relationships, there are some things about them that you just don’t enjoy. You suffer through them because you know that’s part of the deal, but if it was up to you, you’d skip them entirely.

It doesn't mean that you’re unable to do relationships, it just means that you, like everybody else, doesn't love every single thing about being in one with another human being.

Who am I kidding? There are things we don’t relish about the relationships we have with our pets, either.

I love my cats but I don’t get all happy and excited about cleaning up their vomit or their litter box. I don’t jump for joy when I get up in the middle of the night and step with my bare feet on a fireball. But that’s the unspoken agreement: I will take care of my pets and they’ll be cute, end of story.

 

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When you’re in a relationship there are certain things that are never said but are still understood. You don’t cheat on your partner (unless you have an agreement with them that it’s okay), you respect their boundaries, and you treat them with care.

The love, the sex, the companionship are all fantastic. It’s great knowing that someone is there for you, having your back and being your advocate. It’s wonderful knowing that you have someone to take to your sister’s wedding or just hang out with binge-watching Netflix.

But then there’s the not fun stuff like remembering to include them in making plans, being honest with them about things you’d rather not talk about with anyone, or even sharing your space with them.

When you know what your relationship weaknesses are, you won’t be surprised when they pop up and you’re forced to deal with them. Here’s what you hate about relationships, per your zodiac sign.

 

 

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)You can't stand the fact that your partner has female friends and co-workers that he's close to and you can't get jealous; rather, you can't let him know you get jealous. You're allowed to be friends with whoever you please but that's not the point. The point is that you're supposed to trust him and not make a big deal about it when he goes out for drinks after work with that woman from accounting.



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It isn't that you're completely self-centered but you hate how you need to consider your partner in the things that you do, and that you sometimes must censor yourself a little before you speak. These things take time away from getting on with it — going on that hike, booking the trip, and getting your feelings off your chest. If you say what you mean in the heat of the moment, you may find yourself without a relationship.

 

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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
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You can't stand the fact that your partner has female friends and co-workers that he's close to and you can't get jealous; rather, you can't let him know you get jealous. You're allowed to be friends with whoever you please but that's not the point. The point is that you're supposed to trust him and not make a big deal about it when he goes out for drinks after work with that woman from accounting.

 

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GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
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You hate that not every minute of your relationship is exciting and fun. There are the down times that you must get through such as when one of you isn't feeling well or you're fighting. No relationship is always great; there are ups and downs and you have to weather them all if your relationship means anything to you. You don't enjoy the boring parts.

 

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CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
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You hate it when your partner won't talk to you. There are times in a relationship where a partner may not be forthcoming in what's going on in their lives or your partner may be a very private person. You don't like it when there's nothing you can do to get them to talk about it. You know they'd feel much better getting it off their chest but they remain tight-lipped. It's so aggravating.

 

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LEO (July 23 - August 22)
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You're not good with the whole give and take aspect of a relationship. It's challenging for you to remember to ask about your partner's day and to get their opinion on things. You're used to making all the decisions in your life without any help from anyone, but you know that now that you're in a relationship, that kind of behavior won't fly. You've got to work on seeing your partner as a co-star and not a member of your entourage.

 

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VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
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You hate that there are times when there's nothing you can do to help your partner. Maybe it's something they need to work out on their own or perhaps there's no solution, but it frustrates you to not be able to fix it. You know that they feel better knowing you've got their back and that you're their biggest advocate. You hate feeling powerless.

 

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LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
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You hate that sometimes you need to be confrontational in your relationship. You'd rather that things be forever chill and harmonious but that can't be if you're going to have a real, grown-up relationship. You're going to have to talk about the unpleasant things, the negative feelings that you may have, and the problems that need to be worked on because they won't go away, they'll just get worse if they're not dealt with.

 

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SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
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You hate the fact that you have to be okay with not having all the sex you want. Every couple has a dry spell now and then and that includes you. The longer you're together the more your sex life is going to ebb and flow. You may be exhausted from work or too busy with the kids and won't have the energy for sex. Plus, you have to work on finding new ways to spice up your sex life so that it doesn't get boring.

 

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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
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You don't like how you have to give up some of your freedom for your relationship. You like to take off for parts unknown in the spur of the moment and you can't do that in a relationship. You need to tell them your plans, invite them, and if they don't want to go, you have to make sure it's okay with them that you do go. You don't like feeling tied down so you must work to make sure that you can still be independent while in a relationship.

 

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CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
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You hate that sometimes you need to ask and receive your partner's help. You like to be able to handle things on your own without anyone's help but sometimes that's impossible. Learning to work together can be key in a healthy relationship and it's something that you're able to do — it's just not on your top 5 things of relationship favorites.

 

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AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
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You hate that you have to see your partner cry. You're not great with other people's emotions but you know you'll be seen as a huge jerk if you just walk away when your partner is having any kind of emotional outburst. You may feel uncomfortable but it's part of the deal when you're in a long-term relationship with someone. You need to be supportive whenever they need you to be and you must accept them always.

 

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PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
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You don't like having to tell your partner that they have to change. If it were possible for things to always remain the same, that would be cool with you but it's not. There are times when you can no longer tolerate a certain behavior and it's in the best interest of your partner and your relationship that things change. If your partner is smoking way too much weed or eating nothing but crap food, you've got to confront them about it or they could seriously damage themselves. You don't want to do it but you do it out of love.

 

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