Why People REALLY Envy You, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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They want what you have.

We’ve all had people who envied us.

I remember when I got my first good role in a college play and was sitting in my friend’s living room when one of her friends came in, complaining that I had got the role and she hadn’t. She didn’t know I was there and was only trying to get her frustration out over not getting the role.

When she saw me sitting there, she turned bright red and started to try to explain what she meant. I quickly let her off the hook because I understood she wasn’t purposely trying to be mean, she was just jealous.

This was the first time I realized that sometimes people are just envious of you and there’s nothing you can do about it.

Envy and jealousy are very similar and are often used interchangeably. However, according to Merriam-Webster, “Jealousy is when you worry that someone will take what you have and envy is wanting what someone else has.”

With envy, you covet and can become resentful; jealousy turns you into a green-eyed monster. Both emotions vary in degrees of intenseness and both can make you do things that are out of your character.

 

Related: The 4 REAL Reasons Why You're Jealous As Hell (And How To Stop)

 

Envy and jealousy are often strong motivators. You’re jealous that your boyfriend is getting so close to his co-worker but you’re envious of how they seem to share the same way of looking at the world.

Sometimes we are envious of the characteristics and qualities that other people have. I have a friend that never takes things personally which is a trait I wished I had, as it saves the heart from a lot of unnecessary hurts.

There are times when we need to be reminded of some of the gifts that we have and astrology is happy to help out. Here’s why people are jealous of you, based on your zodiac sign.

 

 

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
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People envy your energy and drive — you get so much done in a day and you seem ready to take on even more. You set goals and you reach them, you get challenges and you accomplish them, and when it comes to competition, people better watch out because you’re definitely the one to beat.

 

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One

TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
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What’s enviable about you is your strong sense of self and your self-love. You know who you are and what you believe, and you know that others are better people when they’ve been in your orbit. You’re strong, determined, and loving which makes people feel safe with you.

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One

GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
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You’re great at going with the flow and people envy that about you. It’s hard to throw you off your game because you’re so good at adapting to any situation. Therefore, you’re the best to have at parties; you can be what you need to be whether it’s the social butterfly or the conduit to bring people together.

 

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One

CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
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People envy how you don’t bring yourself down but lift others up to your level. You keep things classy and you’re always your true self around other people. You don’t play games or manipulate people. You’re honest about who you are and what you’re feeling.

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One

LEO (July 23 - August 22)
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Not only do people envy you, they look up to you. You are a leader even when you’re not after that role. You bring out the best in people and your presence makes them work hard for the betterment of everybody. If you hit a bump in the road, you don’t let it deter you, you just get a little more focused.

 

Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
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You have many enviable qualities and one of the main ones is your ability to fix almost anything. If you don’t know offhand how to fix something, you’ll do the research that’s needed. You’re not only knowledgeable, you have an instinct on what you need to do to solve a problem. It isn’t only mechanical or technological items that you can fix, you also have the ability to make humans feel better too.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
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Many people envy you because you’re so likable and you seem to be able to take something dull like a bad party and turn it into a spectacular event. You’re able to relate to many kinds of people and you’re interested in everyone’s story. You don’t like conflict and strive to keep things on a harmonious and peaceful level. You’re just good people.

 

Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One

SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
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You don’t care what other people think of you which makes them envious of you. There’s a freedom when you give zero f*cks about what other people think of you and you’re able to channel that energy into getting what you want. Your focus is incredible and you won’t be derailed about someone else’s idea of your faults.

 

Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
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People envy your optimism. You’re able to see the silver lining with every situation so that you’re usually in a good mood, hardly ever fearful, and often excited about what new thing or change you’ll be able to experience. You make the most out of the life you’ve been given and help other people to see the treasures that life offers.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
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Everyone who knows you envies how you have your act together. You’ve made sure to create a strong foundation for your life, you make the right decisions that set you on the correct path, and you do what you need to ensure that your future is bright. You seem to do everything right and you’re not thrown when certain things don’t fall into place — you just regroup and re-think and get back on track.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One

AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
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It’s easy to envy someone who is as smart and innovative as you are. If you can’t come up with a solution to a problem, you’ll invent it. Your creativity, inventiveness, coupled with the fact that you genuinely care about people is something to be admired. You accept people for who they are without trying to change them and it’s a very special characteristic.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
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People envy you for your talent of being able to cut through other people’s walls and issues and get to the heart of what’s bothering them and who they really are. You’re accepting, selfless, and sympathetic and you’d do whatever you could if someone needed your help. You’re a very special, loving person and people who know you wish they could have some of those personality traits.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One