What You WISH You Could Say To Your Ex, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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When you’ve broken up with someone or they dumped you, do you ever feel as if you got to say everything you needed to say? If you’re not expecting a breakup, you may be too stunned to say what you’re really feeling, but even if a breakup is long and drawn out and you try and say everything, there still seems to be some residual feelings.

Once you’ve entered the “no contact” zone with your ex, all communication ceases and you know that saying that one thing you wanted to say will be considered inappropriate, crazy and wrong, so you don’t say it.

But just because you’ve broken up with someone and one or both of you has moved on, it doesn’t mean that you don’t still have a variety of feelings about them. We hold a lot of our feelings back when we think we’ll be judged for expressing them. Some people can end a relationship and never look back, while others obsess and carry on conversations with their ex all in their mind.

 

Related: 14 Quotes That Profoundly Describe How Much Breakups SUCK

 

Maybe you’re still friends with your ex and don’t want to jeopardize that friendship with a litany of everything you think they did wrong in your relationship — how you think that they mistreated you, so you pretend that you’re fine with the way things are.

Sometimes we don’t say the things we’re thinking because we know it will devastate the people we want to say them to. We don’t want to be mean, but other times, we want to strike out and hurt them as they hurt us. But we usually just hold back and think our negative thoughts about our exes without letting them know how their happiness with their new life hurts us.

You want to be mature and the bigger person and let things go, but that can be very challenging when you’re still in a place of pain and confusion. Here’s what you wish you could say to your ex, based on your zodiac sign.

 

ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
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Because of you can be blunt, you wish you could say, "You're not special, you're just a narcissistic assh*le."

 

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One

TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
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Because you can't believe they did this to you, you wish you could say, "I'm not sure what lesson I was supposed to learn by getting involved with you."

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One

GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
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Because you take friendship very seriously, you wish you could say, "I'll never accept your friend requests on Facebook, so just stop it."

 

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One

CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
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Because you probably did everything in your power to care for them, you wish you could say, "I've never seen anyone who was a bigger crybaby when they were sick than you. Next time, just take a couple of Ibuprofen and shut up."

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One

LEO (July 23 - August 22)
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Because appearances are important to you and your pride has been bruised, you wish you could say, "I always wondered if your mom still buys your clothes."

 

Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
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Because you know you were smarter than they were and it bothered them, you wish you could say, "I just let you think you had all the answers."

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
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Because you like to avoid conflict and repeated heartbreak, you wish you could say, "We could stay friends, but why?"

 

Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One

SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
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Because you don't do well with betrayal and liars, you wish you could say, "You're going to be sorry that you ever messed with me."

 

Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One

SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
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Because you're a free-spirit and don't like to dwell on the past, you wish you could say, "Stop blowing up my phone. We're never getting back together."

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
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Because you can be both hardworking and sarcastic, you wish you could say, "You'll get my bill at the end of the month for services rendered."

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One

AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
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Because you're a creative and inventive person, you wish you could say, "Thank you! The horrible way you treated me has given me material for my art for years to come."

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
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Because you care about the world and all its inhabitants you wish you could say, "No, the dog doesn't miss you at all."

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One