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They're kryptonite for you!
By Christine Schoenwald — Written on Apr 26, 2017
There are people that, no matter how much you like them or how much you want to like them, it’s just better to stay away from them. It’s not that they’re evil or out to get you, it’s just that the combination of you and them doesn’t work at all.
You can't be best friends with everybody nor can you expect to like absolutely everybody on the planet. It doesn’t happen like that. Now, that’s not to say that you can't be kind, pleasant, and gracious to the people you don’t like or feel nothing for; it’s that if you can avoid being in a situation where you’re with them, then do so.
If we were all exactly the same and had the same interests and values, we probably still wouldn’t get along with everyone. It’s in our makeup to get into arguments with people or have them rub us the wrong way.
It doesn’t make you a bad person if you don’t get along with certain people — it makes you a human. Someone may resent you and feel that you’re too entitled and may want to take you down, and in that instance, what’s the better course of action? Try to force them to realize you’re not an ass or put your energy somewhere other than trying to change their mind?
In the big picture, it’s better to make an effort to not be within the range of someone who's toxic for you.
The only person you need to worry about liking you is you, and you need to be your own advocate. Take care of yourself and be intuitive about what you need to feel good about yourself and to feel healthy.
Hanging around someone who makes you feel like your head is going to explode is not good for you. Here’s the personality type your zodiac sign dislikes the most.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
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You can't be around someone who's too laid back. You know the type: they take their time with everything. You go out for a meal with someone like this and it will take 3 hours for them to finish eating. You don't have the patience to be around someone who operates at a slow and relaxed pace. You have things to do and challenges to conquer and you don't appreciate anyone holding you back.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
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You can't be around someone thoughtless, especially if they're thoughtless about other people's feelings. When someone is insensitive and inconsiderate, it makes you extremely angry, and when you express your feelings to someone like that and they just blow you off, it just makes you even angrier.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
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You need to avoid the kind of person whose first line of defense is the silent treatment. If you can't talk it out, it just intensifies what you're feeling and you get increasingly annoyed and frustrated. If they're shy that's one thing, but if they use silence to torture you, you need to back yourself out of their life.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
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There's a warning somewhere that says that individuals born under the sign of Cancer need to stay away from people who are indifferent and detached. Okay, maybe not, but there should be because nothing gets you more than someone who doesn't give a damn about how you're feeling. You simply can't deal and it just makes you extremely upset.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
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You'd think that someone who is used to being a leader and an influencer wouldn't have trouble with any type of person but you'd be wrong. You're not good with pessimistic people. You're aware of what's going on in the world so you don't need someone around you who only sees gloom and doom and never the bright side of anything. Dealing with someone who is a downer isn't one of your strong points.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
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It's best if you avoid someone who is sloppy — not just physically but like a sloppy drunk. Someone who loses control a lot and then depends on you to always clean up their messes by bailing them out of jail or taking all their empties to the recycling center. You don't do well with disorder especially if it's not your own. You can't help everyone, though we know you try.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
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You can't be around someone who's overly aggressive. Oh, it makes you so nervous when they deliberately try to start something. Anyone who thrives on conflict and antagonism isn't for you. You like everybody to get along peacefully and someone who is purposely a jerk to get a negative reaction is your opposite. Avoid at all costs.
Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
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It will only lead to frustration and anger on your part if you're around someone who's weak and can't stand up to you. You're very strong and passionate, and when someone is wishy-washy and emotionally feeble, it causes you to lose your respect for them. When a Scorpio doesn't respect another person, things can get really ugly. If they can't go toe to toe with you, they need to disappear from your orbit.
Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
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You need to avoid people who are disapproving of you and who want to change you. You need to be independent and think and do for yourself. You aren't going to change for anyone and if someone doesn't think you're good enough as you are, then they don't deserve to be in your fabulous company. You don't do well with haters.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
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You have a great sense of humor but you don't appreciate when you're made fun or when you're the butt of someone else's jokes. You need to stay away from a jokester type: someone who would throw you under the bus if it meant getting a laugh. No one likes it when someone they thought they could trust takes confidential information and uses it to make other people laugh, but you especially don't like it.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
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Generally, you're fairly magnanimous with everyone, but the one type of person who really gets on your nerves is someone who is ultra conservative. You tend to break free from tradition and doing things the old way. When someone tries to put their values onto you, you'll do anything to break away. When they express their tired old opinions, you just roll your eyes, which pisses them off.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
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You can't be around someone who has no imagination and takes things too seriously. You just don't understand why they have such a stick up their butt. If someone has no imagination or creativity, they're too boring to be welcome in your world. Better to avoid them than have them bring you down to their dull, unhappy world.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One