The 3 Absolute HOTTEST Ways To Use Ice During Foreplay

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How To Use Ice For The Most Amazing Nipple Play And Oral Sex Of Your Life!
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So freaking cool.

Ice play, aka temperature play, is a type of erotic play where cold objects and substances are used to stimulate the body’s neuroreceptors for a sensual effect. No matter what the weather is like where you are right now, incorporating some ice into your sexy bedroom activities is a perfect way to both chill out and heat thing up. 

So here’s a go-to guide for incorporating ice into your kinky playtime together.

First, a quick PSA ...

The body can’t really tell a big difference between 20 degrees and negative 20 degrees, so it’s important to make sure the ice you use isn't so cold that it will stick to your partner's body. Ice is best used when it is allowed to thaw and melt a bit — not only safety reasons but also for lubricating your sensitive areas and allowing the ice to slide over your body.

 

 

Also, frostbite is real. So, make sure your partner’s skin is reacting in a positive way rather than a damaging way.

Some signs of frostbite include a “pins and needles” sensation, reduced sensation from touch, skin burning sensation or a stinging sensation. Frostbite can also be indicated by blue skin or redness. If any of these things start to happen, stop the ice play immediately and warm up!

The same goes with hypothermia, which can cause shivering, clumsiness, slurred speech, drowsiness, and confusion.

Be sure to keep those signs in mind, and if doing internal ice play, keep the time of insertion low and never go more than 5 minutes.

 

1. External Play: Teasing as Foreplay

To dip your toes into some icy water without the risk of diving in head-first, try a heating and cooling lip balm.

To start your icy adventure, kiss and lick all over your partner's body and most intimate areas for a gentle, tingling, cooling sensation. If that’s not enough, move on to kissing with an ice cube.

 

 

Run the ice along your partner’s body, and then try kissing the cold after to warm up those areas and create a unique sensation. Or make circle 8's around their nipples, breasts or inner thighs. The more sensitive the area, the more impact the ice will have!

For truly exceptional nipple play, you can also use nipple balm, which activates after 1-2 minutes to increase sensation. Then, alternate between using ice and blowing on the area for a cool sensation, or breathing hot air on it for a warming one. The cooling sensation of the balm mixed with hot breath and cold ice will get your partner’s nipples crazy excited and all of their senses tingling.

 

Related: 8 Pros And Cons You NEED To Know Before Getting Your Nipples Pierced

 

2. Oral Sex

For her: Use the slightly melted ice cube for stimulation, but keep it moving and never leave it in one spot for too long. Use a mixture of the ice and your mouth for a hot and cold experience. If this makes her feel overly sensitive, try it over a pair of panties to give her a similar sensation without going overboard.

 

 

For him: Crush up ice and place the smaller pieces in your mouth. This will add texture to the motion of your mouth while you give him a blowjob, heightening the layers of sensation play. Plus, it’ll give you some added lubrication as the ice melts!

 

Related: Everything You Need To Know About Getting Nipple & Clit Piercings

 

3. Internal Play

It is possible to make your own ice dildo ... but, this isn’t necessarily the safest option because of frostbite and hypothermia, so we recommend sticking to something a bit safer, like a glass dildo that can be cooled for temperature play.

Simply put the toy in the fridge, wait for it to chill, and then enjoy the sensation of the cold entering your body. The toy can go wherever you’d like and feels comfortable. Just be sure to use it in moderation.

 

Give it a Try!

Getting caught up in the same routine can be great, as repetition means better results (or better orgasms) — so workout instructors say, but mixing it up with temperature play can add some serious heat in the bedroom… or bathroom, or kitchen.

Starting slow and getting to know your body and its limits can be enjoyable plus an awesome twist to your sex life. Ice play can be ideal no matter the weather outside, so don’t get cold feet!

 

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This article was originally published at Slutty Girl Problems. Reprinted with permission from the author.

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