Let your body speak to him.
Sex can be easy and fun! Just follow these sex tips that women wish men knew to instantly become a better lover. This guide is helpful whether you have just met someone through Tinder or whether you are in a long-term relationship.
1. Find her erogenous zones.
Many people focus on the clitoris, nipples, and G-spot when it comes to pleasuring women. But there are other erogenous zones that are sensitive to touch.
Caress your hands over her body and explore her curves. Ask her to let you know when you come across a sensitive area that arouses her when you touch it. Take your time to softly kiss these areas. Gently breathe on the areas to turn her on. A popular area that most people enjoy being massaged is on the sides of their neck. Remember what she enjoys the most for future reference.
2. Be spontaneous with dirty talk.
When you are out on a date with your lover and you find a quiet moment between the two of you, let her know how much she turns you on and what about her you love the most. You can try saying something like, “I love the way your hair falls near your face” or “You are so beautiful when you smile like that.”
It can be surprising to receive compliments from your partner especially if it is out of character. If you find she enjoy the compliments, try your hand at dirty talking. Let her know everything that you will do to her later.
3. Play with her breasts.
Breast stimulation can be performed by licking, touching, nibbling and pinching the nipples. They may become erect as she becomes more aroused which makes her body even more sensitive. During this process, her body produces oxytocin which helps to create feelings of trust, and it also can decrease the feelings of anxiety.
Normally, people provide pinpoint stimulation to the nipples. Remember to massage the area around her nipples. Sometimes areas that are forgotten can provide some of the most arousing feelings. The lower amount of stimulation can make her beg for more. You can also try biting gently on a nipple when she is about to orgasm. Some women are very lucky as they can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone.
4. Give her a shower.
Showering can be a very sensual activity. Ask your partner if they would like to join you in the shower. Suggest to her that you would like to wash her body. Turn on the shower to a warm temperature that will keep the two of you warm. Lather up the soap within your hands. Massage your hands across her body. Wash her slowly down her neck, shoulder and waist.
When you feel she is comfortable you can begin to wash her breasts, stomach and back. If she is aroused and happy with how things are going you can lather up more soap and massage her vagina. You can also ask her to clean your body, too. Once you have finished showering, take her to the bedroom for some more private fun.
Giving someone else a sexual shower can help to create a stronger relationship as they are trusting you to take care of their body. To make this moment even more personal, you can try having a bubble bath.
5. Put on a show.
It is natural to get sexually excited when you watch your lover touch themselves. When people masturbate, they are able to achieve maximum amounts of pleasure. This will be sure to get you both hot and heated.
Masturbation is an activity that most people do in private so it can viewed as a forbidden experience. If you are nervous, you can ask your partner to give a helping hand. You can also invest in a sex toy to use which will definitely bring things to a whole new level.
6. Spoon her.
Spooning is always fun to do, especially when you are watching a movie together. Spoon her; she may adore feeling an erection gently placed behind her. If she is aroused, she may begin gently grinding against your body. You are then able to massage her inner thighs and her body from behind. You can do a lot of things that will surprise her with every touch.
7. Ask her to take control.
Sometimes people are used to the give and take of sex. Ask her to take complete control; it may be a completely new experience for the both of you. This can make her go wild and take control of how much pleasure she can give to herself.
She will ride you to build her orgasm as much as possible. With this type of sex, ask her to look directly in your eyes. You both will be entrapped within the moment. You will be able to find out what precisely she likes. So next time you are on top, give her what she wants.
This article was originally published at Adult Smart. Reprinted with permission from the author.