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These sex positions do double-duty.
By Aly Walansky — Written on Mar 28, 2017
If you are looking to have really explosive sex, your best bet is probably adding simultaneous clitoris and G-spot stimulation to the mix. One way to do that, of course, is toys.
"Go hands-free by introducing a couples vibrator into the mix. We-Vibe’s latest, Sync, stimulates her G-Spot and clitoris, simultaneously, while letting him feel the vibes as well. With your vibrator taking care of the G-spot and clitoris, he can be free to explore the rest of your body and come across some often ignored erogenous zones," says We-Vibe’s Global Passion Ambassador, Tristan Weedmark.
However, even while sex toys are a great accessory for added stimulation, there's a lot of sex positions you can add to the mix that will get you deeper penetration and hit all your spots just right. Even better, try one of these sex positions along with a toy and see how hot things can get.
1. Deep Missionary
It's a full body sensory experience where his body weight is completely on yours.
"Your hands on his ass, pulling him down deeper into you, pressing the head of his penis deep inside you and against your G-spot. His pelvis is slowly grinding and pushing up against your clit. Plus, you have the full body contact benefit of your nipples being touched and your mouths lined up so that you can kiss, too," says sex and dating expert Laurel House.
2. Doggy Style
Once you've found the right angle, being taken from behind can allow for some incredible G-spot and clitoral stimulation at the same time.
"It can really help to put a pillow under her hips and have him adjust as necessary. This is also a great position for adding a sex toy if your clit needs an additional stimulation," says Antonia Hall, a psychologist, relationship expert, and sexpert.
3. Raised Missionary
Begin in the missionary position and then she raises her legs so they are against his chest, or she puts her ankles on his shoulders.
"This can really get the G-spot and clitoris at the same time. It's also super-sexy," says Hall.
4. Lotus
The man can sit either cross-legged or with his legs outstretched, or he can sit at the end of the bed or on a couch.
"The woman sits on his lap, facing him. This is an intimate position in which a couple can look into each other's eyes, kiss and connect deeply. It also allows her to set the pace and offers great G-spot and clit stimulation. Men tend to last longer in this position," says Hall.
5. Criss-Cross
She lies on her back and he knees in front of her, as though they are in a missionary position but with him on his knees.
"She raises her legs up and crosses them, placing a right ankle on his left shoulder and left ankle settled on his right shoulder. You can add a pillow under her bottom to help with angling. While restrictive, this position offers great clitoral and G-spot stimulation," says Hall.
It also is hands-free, so she can add some stimulation of her clit or a sex toy if needed.
6. Cowgirl
Cowgirl position, whether it's performed in a bed, on a couch or in a chair, is a sex position that stimulates both the g spot and the clitoris simultaneously.
"The female partner has control over the depth of penetration and can focus that penetration on the G-spot while stimulating her clitoris by grinding her pelvis against her partner's. Many women have reported experiencing their first orgasm from riding in the Cowgirl position, and some even experience squirting. The key to riding is the woman's ability to leverage her weight while isolating her hips in a way that allows her vagina to stroke her partner's penis," says sexpert Tyomi Morgan.
7. The CAT
Coital Alignment Technique is a modification on missionary that is great for simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Unlike missionary, your partner’s chest should be at your shoulders and their pelvis positioned above yours.
"Aligning causes the shaft of the penis to be in constant contact with your clitoris, which means orgasms for both of you! Tilt your pelvis toward your partner by propping a pillow under your hips. Their penis will move in more of an up and down motion, rather than in and out horizontally," says Weedmark.
8. Girl on Top
Take total control of your pleasure in this position.
"Based on your preferred angle you will be able to pleasure the best of both worlds. Straddle your partner and find a position, pace, and pressure that suits you," says Weedmark.
9. Leap Frog
While this position is ideal for G-spot stimulation, it can be a winner for your clitoris, too.
"As you settle into the position, have your partner reach under you to stimulate your clitoris. In a standard doggy-style position, your partner penetrates from behind and reaches around to stimulate the clitoris," says Weedmark.
10. Spooning
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This position is sensual, intimate and provides lots of G-spot stimulation.
"Take advantage of this close position and use your hands or a mini-vibe to provide extra stimulation to your vulva/clitoris during sex. Lie in front of your partner, facing in the same direction. Lying slightly below your partner, enter from this position," says Weedmark.
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