The stars know if he's the ONE.
Could your soulmate, the person you should marry, be the person that you’re already involved with? It’s funny how we can tell ourselves we want to share our life with someone and settle down, continuing to search for the right person and be completely blind to the fact that person is right in front of us.
You can't see that you don't need to look any further and that the guy you're involved with is showing signs that he's marriage material.
You might think that your partner doesn’t want to take your relationship to the next level. Maybe they have commitment issues or maybe you just assume they do.
Perhaps they’ve indicated in the past that marriage wasn’t for them or that they were badly burned from a previous relationship and you didn’t want to bring the subject of marriage up because you were afraid that you’d scare them away.
Sometimes it’s not our partners, it’s us. We hold out for someone or something better, not understanding that we have is already fantastic and clearly has what it takes to be a permanent significant other. We overlook and ignore the signs that we’re with the person who is our perfect partner, the person that will help make our lives better.
There are times when we need to take a close look at our lives and set goals. Do you want to be married and/or have children? You can do one without the other if it aligns with your values and morals. You must be brutally honest with yourself.
Are you happy being single and have no need to conform to what society suggests that you do? If so, then that’s great. But if, deep down, you do want to have a legal long-term committed relationship, then you need to go for it and see if your potential spouse is not only already in your life, but that he's been showing you exactly what you needed to know: that he is what you need (and want) in a husband.
Should you marry him? Here's why you absolutely should, based on his zodiac sign.
He makes plans with activities that he knows you'll enjoy and he manages to find things you didn't know you'd love. It's as if he's an expert on you and not only caters to what you like but actually manages to broaden your range of interests.
He doesn't depend on you to do all the planning and can be as spontaneous as you are, surprising you with tickets to that play you desperately wanted to see or challenging you to some one-on-one basketball in the park when you desperately need to let off some steam.
You've been together for a long while, and yet, he still tells you he misses you. You know he means it because when he's not there, you miss him. When you walk into a room, his face lights up and you know that you are his everything. It's not that he completes you because you're enough on your own, but he does make you feel loved and cherished.
Whenever something remarkable or funny happens to you or someone you know, or there's some good gossip, you can't wait to get home and share it with him. He's more than your partner, he's your best friend. He enjoys your funny stories and is always there to give a new perspective when you need it.
He doesn't freak out when you cry in front of him and he knows the difference between your happy tears, your sad tears, reaction tears, and when you're being extra empathetic. You feel comfortable crying in front of him because you know he doesn't judge you for being a very emotional person and that even when you cry ugly tears he thinks you're beautiful.
He couldn't be prouder of you and always brags about you and your accomplishments to his friends, family, co-workers and even the woman at the grocery store. He's beyond supportive as he's your biggest fan and champion. He puts his ego aside if it means giving you the extra attention that you deserve.
When something is broken and needs fixing, you don't even need to say anything — he's on it. He anticipates your needs and wants and does whatever you need without complaint. He wants you to be happy and he has an instinct for doing what needs to be, sometimes before you even realize it. You know that he fixes more than just your computer or your car; he fixes your heart.
When you're around people who are complaining about their significant others, you don't have much to add. You could complain about your ex but your current partner has helped to erase him from your mind. You're grateful to be with someone so wonderful now.
You don't feel weird about making future plans with him. You're not worried about making him your plus one at your cousin's wedding or having him help you after you get that medical procedure. You're confident that this relationship is one that's going to last.
We've all traveled with someone and it was so terrible that it wrecked the relationship, but that doesn't happen when you travel with him. No matter how frustrated and tired you get, you can handle all the unpleasant things about travel without getting into a fight. In fact, he's kind of a good luck charm when you travel — you make all your flights, you often get upgraded, and if there's some kind of mishap he's able to get you to see the humor in it.
He works hard at his job but he always makes sure that you know you're his top priority. If you need his help with something or his attendance at an event, he makes sure to rearrange his schedule so that he can do it. If it's last minute, he'll figure out a way to accommodate both you and his job.
You're comfortable being your true self around him because you know that he loves you exactly as you are and has no plans to change you. You can disagree with him or have entirely opposite views on something, and he tries to see it from your perspective. Even if he doesn't understand, his love for you doesn't change.
You make sacrifices for each other. You tend to be the one who does everything for everyone else, but with this guy, you've met your match. When you got the better job in a new city, he moved along with you; when you needed to take a year off and work on your novel, he supported your decision and did what he could to help you do it. He shows his commitment with his actions and his thoughtfulness.