Everyone can see it.
We all know what it's like when you're in love but aren't ready to admit it. You accuse your friends of seeing something that isn’t there. You wonder to yourself, "does he love me?" There are no signs because if you were in love, you’d know it.
But it can be aggravating if the person that you're in love with refuses to admit the truth that they're in love.
You understand that it's scary being in love — you feel out of control and it feels as if you’re taking a huge risk with your heart. But how can you move on if your partner can't be honest with himself and see that what he feels is LOVE?
By not admitting that he's in love, he's lying to himself, to his friends and family, and most importantly, he's lying to you. It’s not that he's normally a huge liar, it’s just that right now for whatever reason he can’t deal with being in love.
The problem is he can deny being in love all he wants, but the signs are there and everybody but him can see them. He's like a bright neon sign with the words “I’m in love” flashing. No matter what he does to counteract the notion that he's in love, that love is still going to shine through.
His denial is taking valuable time away from the time he could be enjoying the feeling that comes from being truthful about your feelings with the person you love. By being honest and in the moment about loving someone, you strengthen the connection that you share with them.
Time and love are precious and shouldn't be wasted. Wake up and face the truth: you're in love! Instead of asking yourself, "does he love me?" here's the #1 sign he's in love with you, based on his zodiac sign. Maybe if he recognizes it, he can stop with the denial and own his love.
He's in such constant denial about his feelings that when anybody brings the subject up, he tells them how wrong they are and how they couldn't be further from the truth. Of course, when they mention his beloved by name, his heart skips a beat and his breathing gets faster... but that's probably indigestion or stress.
He surprises himself with his jealousy and tries to rationalize his way out of it. He's not jealous, he's just being concerned as any good friend would be. He may want to touch the person he loves all the time but that's just because he's a very tactile person.
When he's around his love, it's as if his true self comes out and shines. Being around someone that he admires and loves brings out the best in him as if somehow their presence motivates him to be and do better. He wants to talk to them all the time even if there's no sex or physical contact involved. He just likes hearing their voice and he's fascinated by what they have to say.
When he met his potential love, he felt as if he could trust them right away and he immediately let his guard down. He shares with them things that not everybody knows and he shows them his vulnerable side. Whenever he gets annoyed, upset or even when he just has a funny story to share, he can't wait to tell them about it.
He admires them so much that he aspires to be like them. He appreciates everything about them from their intelligence to their wonderful personality. He makes sure that they know how incredible and amazing they are, and he doesn't let a day go by without showing them how grateful he is to have them in his life. But if you ask him, he'll say it's not love, it's affection or a general love for humankind.
He likes everything about them which is very rare for him as he tends to critical when it comes to other people. He's a cross between a cyberstalker and a researcher in the way that he follows them on social media. He gets concerned when they haven't updated their status for a while. When they comment on his shares or likes something, it makes him ridiculously happy.
He's always looking out for them and he tries to take care of them (whether they request it or not). He constantly thinks about their best interest and he makes sure that any action he takes has a positive effect on them. If he felt they were being taken advantage of or treated unjustly, he'd be the first person in line to fight for them.
The truth is that love scares the crap out of him. He knows if he admits the full scope of his feelings, his life as he knows will change. He'll become consumed by their happiness and being with them. However, it's too late — he's already there, and he couldn't not love them. It's done, he's in love.
He's cooled down on is travel plans because he wants to spend time with his love. Normally, he'd be on a trip and already be thinking about the next place he wanted to go, but these days he just wants to be physically and emotionally close to them. He continues trying to sell himself on the idea that it's not love, it's just lust. Good luck with that.
He's pushing the person he secretly loves away by being cold and aloof. The funny thing is that if he didn't care about them, why would he hold on to every conversation, every single thing the two of them have ever done together, and why would he remember every dream of his that they've been the star of? He's the king of come closer, go away.
He's integrating his love into his life without even being aware that that's what he's doing. He makes sure to buy the food they like, he plans things around their schedule and he's even picked up some of their hobbies and interests. He's become 100 percent invested in what happens in their future.
He's become his love's advocate and taken on their problems and concerns as if they were his own. He'll do anything to make sure that they're happy and content. He can't stop thinking about them, and without them realizing it, they've become his inspiration for how he lives his life and creates his art.