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The stars know what makes you smitten.
By Christine Schoenwald — Written on Mar 21, 2017
Does your guy do something that normally wouldn’t be considered overtly sexy but turns you on anyway, even if you aren't having sex? The human libido is a complicated and often, what turns you on might come as a surprise; something that is in no way sexual can completely excite you.
How could the littlest thing like picking up your prescription or brushing the hair out of your eyes get you ready for a little sexy time? He might not even be aware of the effect he has on you, and sometimes it’s his being unaware that makes him even more appealing.
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It’s a fine line to tread because if he’s just doing something because it turned his last girlfriend on, it may come off as forced and foolish when he does it for you. The little things he does that give you a lady boner should be unselfconscious and spontaneous because if it’s too planned, it doesn’t work.
Everybody has something attractive about them, but the things that you might find appealing about a man, another person may not like. For some people, there’s nothing more erotic than feet, and for others, there’s nothing less sexy than someone’s hairy toes.
When we’re attracted to someone, especially certain qualities they have, it’s difficult to know where they originated. Did a previous partner have it or did you see it once and have an instant reaction?
Men are known for being visually stimulated but that doesn’t mean that women aren’t as well. There are characteristics that catch our eye as well as certain actions that someone can take. When a guy not only brings you coffee but coffee exactly the way you like it, that’s a turn on.
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Some things that get us going are huge gestures like expensive gifts and others are small like the way he looks in jeans. There’s nothing wrong with having an appreciation for someone and having a sexual reaction to something about them or something they do.
But here's what turns you on, even though it's something non-sexual, based on your zodiac sign.
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
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You're extremely competitive and you like to win, but you can't help but be a little turned on when he doesn't hold back when you're competing against each other. You want him to give it his all and while you'd prefer it if you won, you find him almost irresistible when he wins.
Naturally, you being an Aries, you quickly suggest a rematch or a different competition where you're almost guaranteed a win. Losing isn't the turn on, but going up against a fierce competitor is.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
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The way to your heart and your lady parts is definitely through your stomach, Taurus. There's nothing sexier to you than a man who has some mad kitchen skills. If his presentation is as beautiful as his food is delicious, he's for sure going to score.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20)
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Gemini gets turned on when he's speaking about something that he's passionate about. Although for some he may be ranting, to you it's the sound of ambition, drive, and enthusiasm — and it's wildly attractive.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
CANCER (June 21 - July 22)
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You find it completely hot when he looks deep into your eyes and listens to you without judgment. Cancer, you can tell that he gets you and when he gives you amazing advice on how to handle a problem, you just want to jump his bones.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
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When he takes pride in his appearance by working out regularly and eating right, Leo, you get turned on. It's not just that he wants to look good for you, it's that he cares about his health and well-being, too. Plus, by keeping fit, his energy level is equal to yours and it makes all night sex sessions possible.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
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Virgo, you get turned on when he does things for you. It's not that you're not capable yourself of fixing a broken lamp or taking your car in to get the wheels rotated, it's that he knows and cares about you enough to take care of the annoying things that aren't your first priority. He's demonstrating his level of commitment to you and it's very appealing.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22)
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You can admit it: there's nothing as sexy as a truly funny guy. When he makes you laugh so hard, you practically fall out of your chair. You get completely turned on, Libra. If he's hilarious and has enough of a sense of humor and can appreciate your funniness, that's gold.
Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One
SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21)
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When a guy is passionate about the things you're passionate about, that's enough to turn you on. But when he doesn't share your passion but can still respect it, then that's even better. Scorpio, you want someone who is equal to you in terms of passion and intensity in all things.
Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
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You find a guy who's up for anything is sexy to you, Sagittarius. You like to keep on the move and go places and try new things, and when someone is just as enthusiastic and spontaneous as you are, that causes an extremely positive reaction in your lady parts.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
CAPRICORN (December 22 - January 19)
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Capricorn can't resist a man who is not only good with children but wants a family. When you see him playing peek-a-boo with a baby, your heart melts and you want to start making some babies with him. It's not old-fashioned, it's the continuation of the species.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
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They say the largest sex organ is the brain and when your guy is using his, you get incredibly turned on, Aquarius. You want a guy who can keep up with and challenge you. If he's smart and witty (which, face it, you have to have brains to be witty), your libido increases exponentially.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
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When a guy goes out of his way to help an animal or someone in need, you get turned on. Most people don't view kindness as a turn on but you do. You find someone who gives back to the world incredibly sexy and they become a modern day hero to you. Pisces, you fantasize about romance and who better to be the hero of your erotic novel than someone who does good for others?
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One
