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You don't have to be naughty to get a spanking.
By Rebecca Jane Stokes — Written on Jan 03, 2017
I am a sex-positive person and spend my days talking and writing about sex. I'm also a submissive, and I'm open about that too.
It only goes to follow that I talk to a lot of people about their kinks.
The most common kink I talk about? Spanking.
A lot of people are curious. They want to know why some women love being spanked.
But interestingly, a lot more people want to know why guys like spanking women. So that's what I'm going to talk about today.
Here are 6 reasons why men like to spank women:
1. They get to touch a butt when they're giving a good spanking.
Even men who aren't ass men enjoy touching a butt.
Getting a chance to feel, slap, and grope a butt during spanking is a treat in and of itself.
2. Spanking a woman means there's a vagina on their laps.
It is a fact commonly known that the closer a straight man can get to a vagina, the better.
In the spanking position, there is a vagina on or near one leg and boobs on or near the other.
Feeling a woman wriggle around in this position is hot foreplay for some men.
3. Spanking is a good workout.
Skip arm day? Never. Spanking is a great way to workout your arms.
Just make sure you switch sides regularly to maintain symmetry.
I'm kidding, I'm kidding. Mostly.
Spanking someone does elevate your heart rate, which gets your blood flowing, which makes it easier to get an erection.
4. They know how much their woman likes being spanked.
Not every man who spanks a woman does it because it's his particular kink.
Some men do it because their partners ASK them to do it.
Making their partners happy is their number one priority.
5. Because spanking turns them on.
Spanking is a big part of the Daddy Dom/Babygirl kink.
If your man is a Dom who gets off on daddy play, doling out punishment when his baby girl has been naughty could be a huge turn on for him.
Even if your guy isn't into roleplay, he might just like to watch how a woman's ass responds to the spanking, or how much his partner enjoys it.
6. Because it makes them feel in control.
For many people (male and female) being in a position of dominance or submission (like spanking someone or being spanked) helps them feel more in control.
That's the appeal of BDSM for those into it.
They might feel like they have no say over their job or with their friends, but during kinky stuff like spanking he can feel totally empowered.
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Rebecca Jane Stokes is a writer and editor living in Brooklyn, New York. She writes about relationships, sex, psychology, pop culture, and true crime.