No man is immune to sexual insecurity.
Nothing quite has as many emotional factors in it like sex does, and this is especially true with guys. A good, intense romp can make us feel like we’re kings and queens of the world.
For some men, having sex is often the only way they can get out their emotions without feeling like they’re being weak. For others, it’s the quickest and easiest way to feel desired, loved, and appreciated for who they are as men. And for more, it’s the ultimate way of making them feel like a man.
Despite all these positive emotions, the truth is that men are at their most vulnerable during sex.
Though most guys will act all macho and “strut the stuff” when they talk about their bedroom game, the fact is that every man out there has sexual insecurity from time to time when it comes to his bedroom game. After all, it’s just human nature to wonder if we’re “enough” for our partners.
Even the sexiest, most active person will wonder if they are really all that and a bag of chips when they’re going at it with a partner. Considering how frequently men judge their manliness by sex, it’s understandable that many are wracked with insecurity as a result of a sexual mishap or two.
The truth is that everyone can have sexual insecurities, but at times, our star signs can give us a subtle hint about what we’re really most likely to focus on.
There isn’t a person alive who hasn’t wondered whether their partner was really into them or if they should just have fun with the lights off. But even so, our zodiac signs do tell a lot about our personality. Wondering what his deal is? Here are the most likely sexual insecurities each star sign has in bed.
The Aries man is one who really takes pride in being able to dominate in the bedroom, and as such, he often is insecure about his ability to “man up” in the sack. They need to know they’re powerful and strong in bed. Hell, they need to know they’re the best. Anything less than that will make them spazz out inside, even if they don’t tell you.
Taurus men are almost as competitive as Aries men... except in the size department. These guys are often well-hung, but they need to know they are the BIGGEST you’ve ever seen. As a result, these are often the guys who will compare sizes with friends and search up average penis size charts online.
Gemini men love to hear their woman climax, but there’s one major worry they have. Their biggest concern is that the women they’re pleasuring might not be having as much fun as they’d think. Finding out that you’re faking it would break Mr. Gemini’s heart, so don’t do that to him. Be honest, and guide him, OK?
If there’s one thing that Cancer men worry about, it’s about his equipment’s ability to perform. Their performance anxiety can be absolutely crippling and it can take them a while to warm up to you again if you trigger it. So, be careful about telling him that he’s hard to turn on or that he lasts too long. It may be the reason he stops sleeping with you.
Leos are all about porn star sex and that means their biggest insecurity is how they look in bed. If you want to have a Leo freak out, tell him that he has an awkward “O” face. How he looks naked is his biggest insecurity, so make sure you don’t say something that would make him feel bad about it.
Virgo men tend to be control freaks in bed, but they also can have a submissive side. This makes them feel very insecure on a number of levels. They may question their masculinity for their desire to submit to a woman. Or, they may worry that they aren’t dominant enough. Or, they may worry about their ability to get women into them. Either way, their biggest fear is being unable to control their sex lives.
If there’s one thing that Libra men really, truly get insecure about, it’s the notion that you could be making fun of their sex prowess behind their back. This star sign is all about having a good reputation and respect. If they aren’t getting that in and out of the bedroom, they fall apart.
Scorpio men are very insecure about actually having sex in general. Why? Because it leaves them vulnerable. It leaves them likely to be “exposed” for having weaknesses they don’t want to admit to having. It leaves them likely to show feelings they don’t want to feel. And, as a result, sex is a hard act for many Scorpios to deal with.
Sagittarius guys are wonderful for flings, but their insecurity deals with commitment. Though they often hate commitment, they need to know women would want to pursue them that way. Categorizing them as fling-only material will often make them lose all attraction to you, even if they only wanted a one-night stand themselves.
Capricorns are really nervous about being able to give a girl an orgasm, and as a result, will overcompensate in the best way possible. Failure isn’t in their vocabulary and they’ll make sure you know that. A Capricorn’s worst nightmare is seeing a totally passionless, unpleased woman at the end of a romp.
Aquarius is a star sign that gets insecure about their conflicting views on intimacy. On one hand, they want it. On the other hand, they worry about girls getting too “mushy” for them and wanting a relationship at the end of the fling. Too much love and cuddles will make him flip out, so keep at arm’s length with this sign.
Oh, Pisces men! If there’s one star sign infamous for having both body issues and “worth” issues, it’s the fish. These guys will need lots of ego stroking, especially when it comes to your impression of their bodies and their desirability.