Do you see what they see?
Have you ever met someone for the first time and you're not really sure what you think about them, but after getting to know them, you can't help but think that they're one of the most amazing people you have ever met?
They may not end up being your best friend or lover, but there's just something about them that you can't help but admire and be drawn to. But when you tell them this, they can't seem to believe it. Other people have said the same to them, but they still can't believe it.
And you wonder about the same people who are drawn to you. What is it about you that draws them in?
All of us have attractive qualities, even if we're not sure what they are. In a weird sort of twist of irony, our biggest and harshest critics tend to be ourselves. We tend to see our faults and shortcomings a lot more.
But the good news is that other people tend to see those qualities a lot more than we do. After meeting you, getting to know you, and spending time with you, they start seeing this whole new side of you — your dominant personality. And it draws them in.
These qualities go far beyond physical attractiveness. Yes, people are first attracted by your looks, but what makes them stay is you. Other people are drawn to who you are as a person. If they like what they see, they stick around. But if it turns them off, they leave.
And each zodiac sign possesses a number of these qualities that make them attractive. They stand out amongst the others as they are your most dominant. You may not notice or pay attention to it, but others do. See what your zodiac sign has to say about why people are naturally drawn to you.
As the natural born leaders of the world, Aries are typically the folks setting the trends, not following them. Although impulsive in nature, your enthusiasm and optimism for just about everything makes people want to be around you as much as possible.
On top of being the best friend a person can have, Taurus draw people in with their sensuality. You can be stubborn at times, but people appreciate your groundedness and how classy you are wherever you go.
Geminis are constantly doing things, which can make it difficult to make plans with them. However, this is what draws people to you, Gemini. You've got the energy required to always be moving toward the next thing and people like that about you. When people are with you, life is rarely boring.
Although a tad bit sensitive and self-centered at times, Cancer draws people in with their immense ability to love. They're loyal and dependable, and you'll know when you're the object of Cancer's affection because they make it known with lots of love and gifts.
As the prideful Lion, Leos are recognized as being the most vain of all the signs. They're highly ambitious and have confidence to spare, which can be intimidating. But everyone wants a Leo as their friend. They're incredibly loyal and generous to those in their inner circle. People are drawn to you because of your enthusiasm and passion for everything in life.
As the sign of practicality and logic, Virgos are highly calculative when it comes to how they present themselves to the world. They've nailed down every detail, from the clothes they're wearing to the types of conversation they expect to have. But they're realists and have no interest in being anyone other than themselves, which is a desirable trait for many people.
Libras, while vain like the Leo, are graceful in almost everything they do. They're also great diplomats, having no trouble finding friends because they're typically the peacekeepers of the group. They enjoy bringing people together on peaceful terms.
Scorpios are often seen as opposite to Libras. They're more introverted, but people are drawn to them because of how passionate and loyal they are. Scorpios are very enthusiastic for the things they love in this world, and that includes the people they grow fond of.
Seemingly apathetic and anti-social at times, Sagittarius can be off-putting to some folks. But those that stick around long enough to get to know Sagittarius realize just how exciting and adventurous they really are.
Capricorns maintain a high level of confidence, one that many people mistakenly view as arrogance or vanity. Don't ever stop being confident, Capricorn, because it's exactly why people are drawn to you. When a Capricorn is interested in someone, they're incredibly dedicated and sympathetic.
Typically seen as the "rebel" of the zodiac, Aquarius is always seeking out new, exciting things. And this is what people love about you. You never turn down the chance to make a new friend because you see each new friend as a new adventure to embark on.
Albeit emotional, sensitive and somewhat idealistic at times, Pisces are incredibly loyal to the people they care most about. People are drawn to you because of your emotional, sensitive side; they like that you always see the good in people.
This article was originally published at Higher Perspective. Reprinted with permission from the author.