No wonder people can't resist you.
What makes people attractive to others? Is it the way we look, the way we walk or talk, or maybe how we pronounce certain things? Perhaps it's how you purse your lips when you put on your lipstick, or how you lovingly hit your partner when he makes a silly joke.
Whatever it is, certain people are attracted to certain traits in other people, and it doesn't always make sense why that is. A man can be completely enamored with the way a woman laughs, while a woman could be interested in a man who smirks when he's trying to be coy.
People aren't always attracted to others based on looks alone; in fact, attraction can have more to do with an individual's personality and how they handle themselves in specific situations.
So, what do you find sexy about someone? Other than the way their white teeth sparkle in the sun or how toned their body is, what is it about the opposite sex that makes us so hot and bothered?
When trying to determine why we're so attracted to a particular person, we can always count on astrology to help. We can look to the stars for a bit of insight into who we are and what our best personality traits are.
Horoscopes are a great way to learn a bit about human nature, as well as the dialectics that often play out between the multitudes of people interacting every day. Not to mention, it's incredibly fun! Especially when it comes to your sexual compatibility with another person.
How often do you look up your partner's zodiac sign for a peek into what makes them tick? Certain signs are known for having chemistry with certain others, so it's good to know a little bit about what makes each sign sexy.
An Aries' passion is quite the awesome force. These people tend to be highly independent and impulsive, moving swiftly through life, from one adventure to the next (not to mention they're usually really attractive). Don't feel bad if you fall hard for an Aries; they leave many people intoxicated. But they're glad to have you along... if you can keep up.
So many people are searching for that one person who just gets stuff done. These people are looking for a Taurus. Taurus have the perseverance and leadership skills needed to accomplish many great feats (and they stay completely humble while doing so). Taurus love to play host to a night of pampering their loved ones; it's how they prefer to spend the money they've worked hard to earn.
Those who love a good story that comes with overarching wisdom will love a Gemini. These folks have the sharpest of tongues that can spit both charm and poison, but that only lends to the fascinating stories they have to tell you. Gemini tends to be elusive. You'll discover that this is not unlike the stories they weave; they move happily from scene to scene, sharing their grand journey with those who are interested.
Cancer, while so many people think they have you nailed down, you're also one to be quite unpredictable. But that's only because you live in the gray areas between extremes. If you're looking for a wild ride, a Cancer might just be your ticket.
Leos are the charismatic, charming smooth-talkers who can get you into bed before you've even had a chance to finish your drink. They're naturally warm and energetic, which lends to their magnetism. They can be egotistical at times, seeking out attention. Don't hesitate to give them that attention, though, as they're not keen on sticking around with someone who doesn't admire them.
If you want someone who will match your intellectual prowess, a good place to start looking is a Virgo. They're great at being successful, and that definitely applies to the bedroom as well. They're not afraid of being challenged; they like solving problems, so give them something to work on. They love fighting for their loved ones.
If you're looking for a person who is interested in understanding who you are on a deep, soulful level, Libra is the catch you're looking for. They're highly sensitive and aware of how others are feeling. This helps them to listen closely without trying to control the conversation. They're all about figuring out how to overcome the emotional depths of the human mind.
Have you ever gotten mixed up with the dark and mysterious Scorpio? These are the people who will rock your world and leave you on the side of the road wondering what the hell just happened. If you're the type who enjoys the extreme highs and lows of complex partnerships, a Scorpio is your drug of choice. Their dark side is tempting because you've tasted it and know just how amazing it truly is. But at what cost?
If you're looking for someone who has a heart of gold, you're looking for a Sagittarius. These folks are natural born lovers who open up to others with warmth and affection. They like to give this affection and love to many people, so don't get upset if you have to share. And be sure to never cross them. They value honesty highly, so they have no issue cutting you off once you've burned them.
Sometimes, silence is the sexiest trait a person can have, and Capricorns are known for their silent stoicism. Capricorn remains firm in their beliefs and values, never compromising. They're tough to get to open up, and their silent nature doesn't help. Capricorns find their passion when they're in hot pursuit of something they love.
Aquarius tend to be highly attractive for the most unconventional reasons. It's not necessarily their charm or wit that makes them sexy, but their lack thereof. Aquarius are most attractive when they're in their element, simply being themselves. They see life differently, usually in a way that you never have before.
Pisces are known for being everything a person needs when they need it. They're highly emotional which can lead to naivety, but their souls are old and wise. They like flying under the radar but never hesitate to stop someone from walking all over them. When they're feeling threatened, watch out, because they can become dangerous.
This article was originally published at Higher Perspective. Reprinted with permission from the author.