Sexual fantasies are anything you have thought about doing, but might never have considered following through with. Maybe you get yourself off thinking about having sex with a stranger while your partner watches, role-playing where your man is your boss and you need some discipline, or even watching naughty videos where your fantasies are acted out.
However you do it, your sexual fantasy can be the one thing that exhilarates and excites you. At one point, we have all been beginners at sex and have wanted to try new things in bed; a new position, handcuffs, whipped cream ... and once you’ve tried these new things, you either realized you loved them and kept doing it, or hated it and never did it again.
So why should your ultimate fantasy be any different?! The best part about being open to new sexual experiences is that there is always someone else out there who is into the same fantasies you are.
It even helps to talk to your partner about what gets you off and being open to what he wants to try, too. That said, maybe you don’t know what your biggest sexual fantasy is. Maybe you never thought about it and it’s just never occurred to you that it’s out there, waiting to be discovered by you.
Or maybe you’re totally BORED of the missionary position (and honestly, who isn’t already?) and you need some serious excitement in your life.
Well, never fear because I am here to give you some incredibly sexy ideas to help you figure out your perfect and hopefully new favorite, sexual fantasy. With the help of your zodiac sign, you can figure out what kinky fantasy has been hiding inside you all this time.
If you already have a laundry list of fantasies you want to try, but just can’t seem to choose one to start with, let this list be your guide to ultimate pleasure. You’re welcome.
Nothing is sexier to an Aries than taking their always-in-charge personality into the bedroom. Only during sex can an Aries truly appreciate being in both a dominant and submissive position.
As a Dom, you can be the boss and make your partner do whatever you want them to do. On the other hand, being a Sub can be even sexier because you are finally succumbing to a role where you don’t get to call the shots. Try both positions at least once to get a taste of the dominant/submissive culture.
Being a total foodie, nothing is sexier to a Taurus than bringing their favorite foods to the bedroom. Playing with food can be incredibly sexy and it’s also a lot of fun for both people involved.
Try anything from chocolate sauce, whipped cream, and honey, to edible body powder and oils during sex. Have your partner lick them off of certain parts of your body before switching roles for a night that is insanely sexy and romantic.
Gemini will try anything once when it comes to sex, which makes them totally open to roleplaying. You aren’t easily embarrassed, so you will most definitely try the whole costume, accent, characters set-up. You should also let your partner know what turns you on and what doesn’t during roleplay so you can both stay in the mood without breaking character.
Start by talking to your partner about a fantasy setting that makes you both hot and go from there. Remember that laughing shouldn’t take you out of the mood, but rather make it a little easier to loosen up so you can find out how sexy roleplaying actually is.
Nothing says sexy to a Cancer quite like bondage. The act of tying your partner up, or being tied up yourself, is very intimate, helping you keep a romantic vibe going during sex. This can be a part of your foreplay or during sex, but either way, bondage can be incredibly arousing.
Try adding dirty talk while you tie your partner up to turn them on even more, or play around with both rough and gentle bondage methods. Once you’ve got the tying technique down, play with tactile aids like feathers, ice, or candle wax for something even hotter.
Leo isn’t afraid to be the center of attention, even during sex, so getting busy in a public place only heightens their arousal. The thrill of doing it in an unusual place, along with the possibility of getting caught only makes this fantasy even sexier to you.
If this is your first time getting it on in public, pick a less-populated or secluded place and start small; touching, groping, and oral sex is a good starting point so that you can ease yourself into your new-found exhibitionist side before having full-on sex where someone could see you.
Having oral sex in the amazingly hot sixty-nine position is the perfect way for Virgo to blow their partner’s mind. Not only do you get to show him what you’re made of, but he gets to ravish you at the same time.
This position can be a little hard for beginners, so take a few minutes to get in a comfortable position. Incorporating sex toys can bring 69ing to a whole new level, as well as edibles. Don’t be afraid to get creative with this one!
Libra loves the idea of being a part of a fantasy that no one else would expect them to be into. Because you like sharing and consider yourself to be a generous person, nothing is a better choice for you than a threesome.
Threesomes are great because you don’t have to be part of a relationship to enjoy one. Whether you volunteer to be in one with friends or you ask a stranger to join you and your partner, being in a threesome means you get double the attention and double the fun. Plus, you can easily cross this fantasy off of your bucket list since there’s always someone looking to join a threesome.
No one gets freaky like a Scorpio, so finding a fantasy you haven’t already tried can be hard. You love heightened passion in bed, including rougher sex and interesting toys, but one thing that’ll totally blow your mind is double penetration.
If this is something you’ve been wanting to try, but have been too nervous to actually go out and find two people to join you, start by DPing with sex toys before doing the real thing. Once you get comfortable with the act, then you can find friends (or strangers) to do it with you; trust me, someone will definitely be into this fantasy, too.
Sagittarius is always curious about what their favorite sexual fantasy might be. You jump at the chance to try new things in life, so why should sex be any different for you, right? Being the social creature that you are, having an audience during sex is incredibly hot to you.
Whether you make a sex tape, take photos, or put on a show for online chat rooms, the idea of others getting off to you and your partner (or alone) is right up your alley. The best way to go about this kind of fantasy is to just go all out. Having others watch you and wonder what’s it’s like to have sex with you can be awesome dirty talk material with your man later on.
For Capricorn, the hottest fantasy is one where they have to give up total control and succumb to their partner. You are usually always in charge in life, so being put into a position where you aren’t able to boss someone around can be very arousing to you.
Being tied up – ball gags, handcuffs, and all – is perfect for you. You can add a roleplay situation or sex toys, but focus on having no control over the situation for maximum arousal. Allow yourself to enjoy being taken care of by your partner, as well as only relying on a few of your senses. Remember that your partner is the boss in this fantasy and you’re the one who has to do all of the obeying now.
Aquarius loves trying new things and is always up for making their sexual fantasies come true. Anal and anything related to your cute butt are fair game, so making it the main part of your fantasy is perfect for you. Being the open-minded person you are, you will probably be the first one to suggest anal play to your partner.
Anal sex can still be very intimate and gentle, and should be when it comes to beginners, but that doesn’t make it any less sexy. If you want to go slow at first, try using a butt plug to warm up to the idea before going straight at it. Reversing the roles with your partner can also be crazy hot and you should definitely try it at least once (as long as you’re both up to it).
Just because Pisces enjoys being in a committed relationship doesn’t mean they can’t get kinky with it, right? When you think about some of your biggest sexual fantasies, you might often gravitate towards something that you and your partner can get into.
Group sex, or swinging with another couple, is a great choice for you. You still get to have fun with your partner, but you also get to try something totally new and exciting. Swapping partners, watching another couple, and going at it all together can push you out of your comfort zone and towards something you never thought you’d like. Start by finding a couple you like a trust so that you can warm up to the idea.