What You'll NEVER Tolerate In A Relationship, Based On The Zodiac

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What's your dealbreaker?

No relationship is ever completely easy or perfect. We all have relationship dealbreakers (things we can’t tolerate) that have the power to end a relationship or prevent it from happening in the first place.

You might be the kind of person who needs to talk about everything that’s going on in your life or everything that you’re feeling, so a dealbreaker for you might be someone who keeps their emotions to themselves or somebody who hates when other people are emotional.

When in a relationship or beginning one, you can't assume that your partner isn’t going to change in the way that you want them to. Yes, they’re going to change and grow, but in ways that you have no control over. So if you have an issue with something they believe or a way they behave, it’s going to cause a lot of friction and negativity in your relationship and love life.

You might be in the beginning stages of a relationship and have no idea that your partner has certain morals or acts in ways that are the opposite of what you believe or find tolerable.

Your partner may not believe in a higher power, while you are deeply spiritual; in cases like this, you must decide if it’s something you can live with or if it’s better to separate. It’s good to know where you draw the line and what characteristics in others that you can’t live with.

Astrology can help give you some insight on your relationship dealbreakers, things that will cause you to question if you want to continue with a person.

We’re all different and a quality that you find abhorrent may not be so bad to someone else. Since we share similarities with other people born under the same sign as us, our zodiac signs can give us ideas about the personality traits that will cause us to shut a relationship down.

Here's what you absolutely won’t tolerate in a love relationship.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)
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Aries absolutely can't stand someone who is a stick in the mud and never wants to do anything. If they're negative, lazy, and low-energy, they won't be a good fit for you. You're a very driven person, and someone who just wants to stay home and watch TMZ is the opposite of someone you should get involved with.

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
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Taurus can't be in a relationship with anyone who can't sit still or someone who constantly has to be doing something. You need time to chill and just hang out, and if your partner was constantly bugging you to get off the couch and run a marathon, that wouldn't work at all.

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
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Gemini's least perfect partner would be someone who was anti-social and standoffish. You love to socialize and go to parties, and if you had a partner who wasn't into that, it wouldn't work out. If you had a partner who was secretly rolling their eyes when you were busy being the life of the party, that wouldn't go over well, either.

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
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Cancer is a very loving and caring person, and that's what they seek in a partner. What you can't grasp is someone who seems to have no feelings and who shows no interest in your emotions. You'd rather live by yourself in a cave than be in a relationship with someone so indifferent and heartless.

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One

Leo (July 23 - August 22)
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Because Leos are true extroverts, they make fantastic leaders and celebrities. They love to be in the spotlight and have all eyes on them. Leos need a partner who is a match for them and can stand with them while supporting them. They don't do well with someone who is introverted and shy. Leos shine when they're around people and it wouldn't work if their partner couldn't stand social situations or small talk.

Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
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Your word means something to you and if you say you're going to do something you do it. It makes sense that you can't tolerate someone who is flaky. If they usually show up late (if at all) for something or they constantly break their promises, Virgo will pretty much lose it. They're reliable and that's how they want their partner to be.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

Libra (September 23 - October 22)
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Libras strive to make everyone happy and what they can't really take is a relationship with someone who is a constant downer. Sure, they'll try to lift their Donny Downer's spirits, but after numerous attempts to put a smile on their face and failing, Libra will start to get extremely frustrated. Libras don't mind moods, they just don't do well with someone who is always unhappy.

Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
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Telling the truth is a must when it comes to Scorpios, so anyone who is two-faced or tells lies isn't for them. It doesn't even take a lot of lies or huge lies for the Scorpio to shut down the relationship. They won't deal with liars at all.

Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
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If you're a Sagittariusyou're open to new experiences, adventures, and thoughts. You don't well in relationships with people who are close-minded and closed down. You don't want to narrow your world, you want to expand it, so anyone who has no interest in discovery and just wants a boring life doing the same things isn't going to be your perfect mate.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
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Capricorn can't handle someone who is too wishy-washy and indecisive. That's one thing about you — when you make up your mind, it for better or worse. You can't stand somebody who vacillates all time, going back and forth on an issue or a decision.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
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Aquarius wants to save the world and is constantly doing things that benefit people and the planet. They're practical dreamers but they don't do well with someone who is too pragmatic and sensible. They don't want to be shut down before they've even begun. They want someone who supports them when they take a leap of faith, not someone who tries to convince them about how they'll fail.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
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Pisces are very sensitive people and they won't tolerate those who are insensitive and mean-spirited. They won't stay with someone who isn't kind and considerate or someone who gets joy out of humiliating other people.

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One

 

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