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It's not jealousy. It's admiration!
By Emily Ratay — Written on Nov 18, 2016
Every single one of us has qualities that make us the incredible beings that we are. Some of our best traits come naturally while others tend to take more time to perfect, but what makes us truly special (to ourselves AND others) are the traits that make others want to be more like us.
When you think about what makes your best friends so lovable and great, you would probably say things like, "She knows just what to say when I'm feeling down" or "She always shares her food with me."
The same things can be said about you from the people who are the most important individuals in your life. The more time you spend perfecting these positive traits that everybody loves so much, the more you will become a positive influence in people's lives.
If you don't do this already, you should always be trying to be a better person.
Whether that means growing up, being more available to your family and friends, or just finding more positivity in your own life, you can always benefit from growing as a person.
Even if your zodiac sign says that you are completely full of yourself (and yes, I'm talking about you Scorpio), you do not have to accept that your negative zodiac traits will never amount to anything positive.
Of course, you can (and should) always still think of yourself as the bee's knees, but you should also try to use that confidence to boost somebody else's self-image, especially if they look up to you as inspiration.
Read below to find your zodiac sign to see which traits are making why everybody totally green with envy because they want to be you.
Aries (March 21 - April 19)
You make everything look like a party and you know how to handle a full schedule without getting overwhelmed. … How do you even do that?! Everyone wants to be you because you bring effortlessness to everything you do.
What makes you even better is your ability to make everyone around you feels included. You’re a pro at making friends anywhere you go and your social nature makes you look that much more confident.
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Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
Your reliable nature is one-of-a-kind and it is no wonder you make such a great friend and partner. Those in your life know that you NEVER go back on your word because you’re the type of person who would ride or die for the people you love.
You take pride in always being there when your friends and family need you the most. Those around you who see this strong, reliable nature often wish they could also be the amazing friend that you are.
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Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
Your curious nature is so contagious, people tend to flock to you when they want to have a good time. You are always down to try something new, which makes you seem incredibly brave and fun loving.
People often want to be more like you because you aren’t afraid to look silly when getting out of your comfort zone (or even being the only one to try something different). Your love for life and excitement looks a thousand times more fun when you’re involved.
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Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
No one cares like a Cancer does, and trust me when I say everyone knows it. You know how to take care of the people you love without breaking a sweat, all because your caring personality is something you love most about yourself.
People secretly wish they were you because you know how to deal with just about anybody. It doesn’t matter if they are in a bad mood and they decide to take it out on you, you know how to defuse any situation expertly and go back to being the kind soul that you are. People who have you in their lives are SO lucky.
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Leo (July 23 - August 22)
Your warm-hearted nature comes naturally to you and you have SO much love for the people in your life. Sure, they might frustrate you a bit, but the feeling of happiness you get when you share with others and make them smile trumps any negative emotion any day of the week.
You vibe off of other people’s happiness, especially when you are the one who makes them feel this way. When others start to get impatient or annoyed with people, you always keep your cool. People secretly wish they were you because they want to know how you can be so calm and collected around people all the time, and STILL make time for yourself… Definitely black magic.
READ: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo (As Written By A Leo)
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
You always remember the smallest details about people that many others tend to forget. Whether it is in your relationship or with your closest friends, you blow everyone away with your ability to pinpoint someone’s likes and dislikes.
Leave it to you to cheer a friend up when they’re having a bad day or get everyone exactly what they want for Christmas. People secretly want to be you because they find it so fascinating that you can make everyone around you feel special and wanted, no matter what.
READ: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
Libra (September 23 - October 22)
You have the ability to see the good in everyone, and you always try your hardest to make people happy. Not everyone understands how you can be so willing to see the glass half full, but with such an idealistic mindset, it isn’t hard for you in the least.
So many people are envious of your optimistic outlook on life, especially in times when they need a positive attitude the most. You love to make everyone around you feel like they deserve happiness, which makes you such a great person to know.
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Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
You put your all into everything you do and you NEVER half-ass anything. Your passion for life and love is on a whole other level than everyone else.
Some people see you as a frivolous and ready to give your heart to anyone who wants it, but in reality, they actually find your strong, passionate personality admirable. People secretly wish they were more like you because you know how to make even the most mundane activities look fun; you would much rather enjoy life than float through it.
READ: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio (As Written By A Scorpio)
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
The amount of energy you have in that little body of yours seems an almost impossible amount, but somehow, you pull it off. You love those days when your schedule is full, you get to spend time with friends and family, and you’re in a great mood.
Your energetic and enthusiastic nature about almost everything makes you such a positive person to be around. Even when everyone else is feeling grumpy, you are ready to rub off some of your cheerfulness onto others. Those around you wish they had your stamina and drive to make the most out of every day because you know how to get sh*t DONE.
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Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
Your crazy loyal nature makes everyone in your life feel loved and welcome. You see friends and family as life-long investments, and you know that it sometimes takes a little extra effort to make things work.
People often secretly wish they were more like you because you have a knack for acting like a best friend, sibling, parent, AND lover all rolled into one. You know who needs what kind of attention and when, making you a pro at all things related to love. The best part? Your loyalty is like an endless well; there’s always something for everyone.
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Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
Your intelligence, which is different from every other smarty-pants you know, impresses everyone around you because (surprise, surprise) you’re always the one to do things your OWN way. You know how to mix deep thought into every conversation, making you super profound and unique.
People envy you because they wish they could see the world as you do; full of possibility and questions to be answered. You are a very introspective person, which makes you look mysterious to the naked eye, so people often wonder what you’re really thinking and how they can get in on it, too.
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Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
Your intuitive nature is so in tune with the needs of your friends and family that people are mind blown trying to figure out how you do it. You don’t even have to exchange words with someone for you to know exactly what’s on their mind … kinda freaky.
People secretly want to be you because you make looking like a BFF the easiest thing in the world. You don’t let little arguments tarnish your relationships. In fact, you use these types of situations to prove exactly what makes you such an amazing friend.
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