If he's happy, you'll know.
Sex has become an increasingly important and discussed part of adult couples' lives, and that means that it's really common for people to wonder if they're fulfilling their partners in bed. With all the crazy stuff being posted online, it's easy to feel like you're not enough, even if you are. This is especially true when most guys won't openly admit that they aren't feeling it in bed.
That being said, most of us have wondered if we're really as good as our partners say we are. Here are ten signs that they aren't bluffing.
1. He initiates sex.
Generally speaking, a dead bedroom or a one-sided bedroom is a sign that he's not being fulfilled by you. If anything, it suggests that you should probably be looking into a breakup. If he's initiating on a regular basis, he's still enjoying getting it from you.
2. He's pretty upbeat.
Assuming that the two of you are having sex and you're also sexually happy, a guy who seems happy overall is a good sign. Men who aren't satisfied tend to be moody, huffy, or distant. They may also just seem overall depressed.
3. Sex isn't a big issue in your relationship.
A very wise person once pointed out that sex is the only issue that's never a big deal when it's satisfactory, but can be the potential problem when it's gone. If it doesn't seem like it's a problem to either of you, he's happy with what he's getting.
4. Cuddling is common.
Sex isn't just about P in V. It's about the entire experience, and guys won't be fulfilled without some soft caresses and kisses in the mix. Cuddles and other forms of affection are what makes sex with your romantic partner different from sex he would have with a Fleshlight. That's why guys love affection.
5. He tells you he's satisfied.
If a guy says he's happy, he usually is. Guys are pretty honest about things like that. So, if you have any question about how he feels, ask him. More often than not, he'll tell you straight up how he feels.
6. Oral sex is reciprocated.
Most of the time, a guy who isn't feeling good about his sex life won't be very oral. The reason why is because he will feel like he's giving, but not getting, and that will make him stop giving. If he's licking you up, it's a good sign.
7. Affection, in general, is very frequent between you two.
A person who isn't getting sexually satisfied will very rarely ever go out of their way to be affectionate with their partner. If he's always smooching on you, it's a sign he loves you.
8. He isn't straying.
Don't get me wrong: even satisfied men can stray. But if a guy stays loyal to you, it's often a sign that he's also happy with the way things are in bed.
9. You actually make a point of listening to what he wants in bed, keeping an open mind, and being accommodating to him.
A guy who has a girl willing to meet him halfway usually will be very thankful for it. It's actually pretty rare to have, and that's why many men are pretty happy to be with someone who does offer them that.
10. He brags about it.
If he's really happy, you might overhear him bragging to his friends about what a great sex life he has. That means you really are the girl he's all about.