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And they're NOT holding back.
By Loren Trapanese — Written on Dec 14, 2016
When it comes to sex, anticipation comes from the foreplay, the teasing, and playing. During foreplay, touching, groping, and a steamy makeout session is the appetizer and oral sex is the main course. For a lot of men and women, oral sex will determine how great the actual sex is going to be, so sometimes the stakes are pretty high when it comes to your performance.
If you wind up receiving some really amazing oral sex, it's not that surprising for you to become hooked on it. Trust me, there are people out there who would rather get oral than have sex. It's more common for women than men, but there are men who hold high their preference of liking a blow job more than sex, and we wanted to know why.
So we asked: blow jobs vs. sex?
1. There's a deeper connection.
"For me, the connection you get from the girl when she looks up at you is what makes it more appealing than sex. I think it's sexy when the look on my face motivates her to get what she wants out of me." — Brian, 23
2. Blow jobs are just... sexier.
"Not every girl enjoys giving blow jobs, or even attempts it. I've had sex with women who won't give oral, which takes away from the whole moment and doesn't make me sexually attracted to them as much. A great blow job is sexy and shows she's comfortable with her sexuality and isn't scared to be dirty. Knowing that she's fully in control when giving me a blow job is just so sexy to me, especially when it's sloppy. And I don't have to wear a condom." — John, 26
3. There's no chance of her getting pregnant.
"The appeal is simple: you don't necessarily have to wear protection with oral. It really does feel better and the chance of being a father is zero, so that's a great plus. Also, it's quicker and you can get one anywhere: driving or in a Macy's dressing room. Plus, I would much rather the feeling of climaxing and the girl still performing oral rather than having sex because when you climax during sex you have to stop to be sure the condom didn't break." — Francis, 23
4. They're naughty.
"The idea of a girl being naughty enough to love doing it is what turns me on. I think blow jobs are more intimate/a bigger deal than regular sex, which is why regular sex has been more 'status quo' in my life thus far. But there's nothing sexier than looking down as a girl stares back up at you. Such a turn-on." — Mike, 24
5. You can watch the whole thing.
"Getting head makes me feel like a porn star. The control I have combined with the sloppiness makes me feel like a king. A big bonus is that she can still keep going even after you orgasm and it makes the sensation even more amazing. Plus, I love that I can watch her do it." — Vinny, 33
6. You don't need to do anything.
"It requires no effort on our behalf. I enjoy the fact that I can just lay down or sit or be in a car and have an orgasm without doing anything." — Anthony, 24
7. They're sloppy...in a good way.
"Nothing feels better than when I'm getting a proper blow job with spit dripping down my shaft, watching her grab it all up as she strokes me at the same time."— Brian, 23
8. Sex doesn't feel as good.
"It feels better and if a woman is comfortable giving a blow job, it shows she's more freeing, passionate, and sexual." — Nick, 23
