Heartbreak needs TIME to heal.
When your heart gets broken, it is very common that both people involved in the breakup don't heal the exact same way. Some relationships might be easier than others to get over, whereas some can make you feel like you will never feel the same way again.
It can be MUCH easier to move on when you don't care about the other person anymore. But what about those of us who, for whatever reason, can't bounce back after a breakup?
You end up asking yourself if you were even important that he could find someone else so soon. And sometimes, you push yourself to find out more about his new relationship that you end up hurting yourself in the process.
As hard as it might be to hear it, it is NEVER worth it to put yourself through the torture of holding on. If he was able to move on without a second thought, you should try to do the same.
It might be hard at first if your thoughts are consumed by what he's doing, who he's with, if he ever thinks of you ... but when you start focusing on yourself, you heal quicker. Plus, having Netflix, a bed full of blankets, and your two new boyfriends, Ben & Jerry, definitely helps.
Moving on takes time, and there is never a set timeline that you can follow to speed up the healing process. The best thing you can do is to just let yourself cope and move on as naturally as possible; even if that lasts a while.
If you're searching for the best quotes and memes to share with the people you love (or just want to feel inspired yourself) ... look no further! From the sweetest love quotes, inspirational sayings, and hilarious friendship truths, we've got you covered.
"I will never regret you, or say I wish I'd never met you, because once upon a time you were exactly what I needed."
"Sometimes all you have to do is forget what you feel and remember what you deserve."
"You've got a broken heart, Not a broken life. A broken dream, but never a broken future."
"Be still and heal."
"Each night you put your head to your pillow, remind yourself that you're strong because you've gone one more day without them."
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward."
"All this time you drank him like he was the cure, but maybe he was the poison."
"Enough is enough."
"If he's stupid enough to walk away, be smart enough to let him go."
"Pain makes you stronger, tears make you braver and heartbreaks make you wiser, so thank the past for a better future."
"This is not your heart breaking my darling. This is your heart hatching, shedding the shell of who you once were. This is your rebirth."
"Don't worry. You may think you'll never get over it, but you also thought it would last forever."
"Don't let the person who didn't love you keep you from the one who will."
"New beginnings are often disguised as painful endings."
"Forget the past, forget the pain and remember what an incredible woman you really are."
"This is a good sign, having a broken heart. It means we have tried for something."
"I will not be another flower, picked for my beauty and left to die. I will be wild, difficult to find, and impossible to forget."
"We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us."
"It's a constant battle. The war between remembering and forgetting."