You can't make everyone happy ALL the time.
It's no secret that we all have haters. I mean, let's be real, no one likes everyone 100% of the time — even if they won't necessarily admit it. We've all had those moments of hatred; whether it be out of spite, jealously, annoyance, or some other petty reason.
So, how surprised can we really be that others have had the same thoughts about you?
It's nothing new — people love to gossip, love the drama; they love to hate on anyone who is different from themselves. And the thing is, we're all different in our unique ways, so there's always bound to be some sort of hatred in the air when it comes to our relationships with other people— no matter how hard we try to stop it.
There's a reason why movies like Mean Girls is beloved by so many viewers — because we've all been there. It's a super relatable topic and really hits home with a lot of people. We all know what it's like to have enemies and, even more so, we all know what it's like to make enemies of our own.
Just like anything else, there are reasons why people hate us, just as there are reasons why people love us. Our zodiac signs tell us exactly the kind of person we are and the reasons that our haters just LOVE to HATE us (whether or not we really deserve it).
Find your sign below to see why some people just will NEVER learn to like you. (Oh well).
You always have to be number one. People tend to hate your incessant need to be the best ALL the time. You come off as though you always have to come first before everybody else. Your haters see that and are instantly put off by it.
People see you as very materialistic. You do enjoy material items — the prettiest, shiniest things — so your haters aren't wrong. But, the reason they hate you is because they don't think there's no depth to you beyond that.
You're majorly inconsistent and that tends to throw people off a bit. You'll cancel plans last minute and change your mind about stuff constantly. Hey, we get it. You like your spontaneity, but your haters get real annoyed with that REAL quick. *shrugs*
You tend to be pretty good at manipulating your surroundings, so (obviously), your haters really can't that about you. You like to have absolute control over everything, and they see it as you acting like puppeteer while they're all just a part of your show.
Your arrogance often gets in the way of people seeing all of the really great qualities you possess. Acting like you're better than everyone else tends to negate the good things — like your ability to make people laugh. Your haters are bound to remember your arrogance over your HILARIOUS sense of humor.
OK, so you're pretty picky. So what?! Well, your haters think you're way too overly critical of everyone around you. They see you as judgmental, so they don't mind throwing it right back in your face.
Yeah, yeah. You're clingy. Most people don't like to be alone ALL the time, but you can't EVER stand to be alone. Your haters get annoyed real quick with your constant need to be with them. Oh well. You be you.
Your haters never know whether or not they can truly trust you. You're pretty dang secretive and tend to keep to yourself more often than not. Untrustworthy people make a lot of enemies. But you're not always that way, and to those that can hang, you're just about as loyal as they come.
So leave them as that - haters.
Sometimes, you have a hard time keeping all of the promises that you make. Constantly letting everyone around you down and making them question whether or not they can believe the things you tell them, can really make people not like you — which is why you find yourself making enemies.
You are a real know-it-all. You just looooove to show off and prove to everyone how smart you are. It's all well and good that you won't to impress people, but sometimes you go a little over the top and your haters see it as you thinking you're better than them.
You love to be independent and on your own. You don't mean for it to be off putting, you just like your personal alone time. Sometimes your haters can take this as you just wanting nothing to do with them because you're too good for them.
If you really want to make these haters into friends, you're going to have to make time. If not, though, just keep doing you.
People tend to think you're a little weird because you're constantly lost in a daydream or your own little world. You don't mean to be such an introvert, but you just believe there's something better out there than the reality you're stuck in. Your haters don't really understand where you're coming from, though.