Don't know what to say? This will help!
Sexting tends to make a lot of people really uncomfortable. Not necessarily because they don't like the idea of it or they're against it, but usually because they have no idea what to say. They don't want to come off as inexperienced or dumb.
It can be embarrassing if you don't know how to do it, so many people just avoid it at all cost!
But, hey, sexting can be REALLY fun when you give it a chance! It's great for the typical long-distance relationship, of course, but even if you're just away from your lover for a night, it can be pretty dang useful. It certainly is a real quick way to turn your man on — and turn yourself on, too.
That's the beauty of sexting, it's not just geared toward one half of the couple, it's enjoyable for the couple to do together. It may be a little weird at first because you're feeling unsure about it, but once you figure out the BEST things to say to your man (according to your astrology sign) it'll be like you've been doing it for years.
There's no better way to turn your man on when you're unable to do anything physical, so learning the art of sexting can be incredibly beneficial. If you're super concerned about not knowing how to word your sext, look no further! We can tell you just what you need to say according to your zodiac sign!
"Do you think I look better in a short skirt or tight jeans?"
Talk about straight forward! But hey. He'll tell you JUST what he likes. Use this to your advantage the next time you see him in person.
"Last night I had the wildest dream about you."
I mean, this leaves a LOT to the imagination ... consider this a GREAT thing! Maybe he'll tell you what he dreamed of too. I bet they are the same thing.
"If I could only wear three items of clothing or less tonight, what would you choose for me?"
Because you tend to be indecisive, why not leave the dressing to him tonight? He'll LOVE the idea.
"Guess what I'm doing?"
JUST in case you change your mind half way through your first time sexting, leave the ball in his court.
"Can't wait until later tonight with you ;)"
Obviously you've already made plans for the night, so might as well let him know that you'll be in charge ... ALL. NIGHT. LONG.
"I miss having your arms around me."
OK, you're a bit shy. That's alright! Go for something safe and sweet. He'll know what you mean.
"I was thinking of you in the shower this morning."
Go on the safe side just in case you find him in a weird mood (like in a bad meeting at the office). Trust me, you'll be the best thing he's heard all day.
"If you could have a hickey anywhere on your body, where would you have me put it?"
You want to mark your territory, right? So you might as well convince him to give you permission to do so.
"How about we skip our date and head straight to dessert ... in bed? ;)"
OK, so talk about making promises. Let's just hope you can keep this one by the time you actually see him. It'll be fun!
"I'm going to wear my fuck-me heels tonight. Do you mind?"
Hey, go for the gold, right? Tell him something you KNOW he wants to hear, that way there're no mixed messages along the way.
"What are you thinking about right now?"
OBVIOUSLY you don't want to put out there what YOU'RE thinking, so why not ask him instead? I bet he'll tell you whatever pops up (pun TOTALLY intended).
I get it ... you don't want to go overboard when there's REAL feelings at stake here, so take it slowly by starting off with some seemingly innocent questions.