Don't say these things.
Have you ever said the exact wrong thing to someone? We all have experienced that moment where the words leave your mouth and you know almost immediately that you shouldn't have said what you just said. You wish you could take it back, but now those words are out there; no matter how much backpedaling you do, you can't change things.
We're all human, and we can't say and do the right things all the time. There are always going to be times where we stick our foot in our mouth.
The one thing you can't do when you say something wrong is dwell on it or make it into a bigger thing. If you apologize or try to take it back, you'll just draw more attention to it and make it worse.
Sometimes we say things because we feel so comfortable with the other person, but no matter how non-judgmental someone is, people are still going to have a reaction to your words. You have to really consider your audience.
Is it OK to tell a raunchy story to your youth group? Probably not. Do you want to give your date the graphic details of your stomach flu during dinner? That wouldn't be wise. Now, you also can't focus on being perfect and never messing up — that never works.
There are times when you think you're saying something that's perfectly OK, and then get a very negative and unexpected reaction. Everybody has certain things that push their buttons and you don't know about them until you trigger them in some way.
Attraction is a mysterious and tricky thing, and it's difficult to predict what is going to rub your potential Mr. Right the wrong way. Here's a guide on the least sexy thing you can say to him, based on his zodiac sign.
Aries are passionate about everything, and that includes sex. They're enthusiastic and adventurous, and they expect their partner to be as well. When someone doesn't share their excitement and acts as if they couldn't care less, it's a complete boner-killer.
Any kind of ex talk to a Taurus is a sure way to ruin his mood. Taurus can get very possessive and jealous, so if you compare them to your ex in any way, it's not going to end well.
Boredom is kryptonite to a Gemini and they live their life trying to avoid it. If you say you're bored, they will interpret that to mean that they are boring and they won't be able to take it. The worst is if you said you were bored in bed; in that case, the Gemini would probably just self-destruct.
Alone time is different from time alone, and Cancer will take that to mean that you need to break up or that he can't trust you with his feelings anymore. Cancers tend to be emotional and needy, and if you don't want to be around them, they're going to go into protection mode... and that means no sexy time.
Do not, under any circumstances, question Leo regarding their body in any way, even if you don't mean it as an insult. Maybe you thought they were too skinny before and think a few extra pounds looks good on them. It doesn't matter; don't say it. Leos can be very vain and if you say something about their appearance that isn't an obvious compliment, you're done.
Virgos work hard to make sure things are perfect. If the Virgo has done anything and you give a lukewarm response, they're not going to be happy. They may get so consumed with fixing and improving the thing you just deemed mediocre, they won't even have time for sex, even if you were talking about sex.
Say anything confrontational or unharmonious and Libra will find it the opposite of sexy. Rather than touch you, they'll probably hide from you. Confrontation makes them nervous, not turned on.
No matter how small or how inconsequential, never lie to a Scorpio for they'll know it immediately — it's like a superpower with them. If you don't tell the truth, not only won't they want to have sex with you, but they won't want you in their life and will dump you fast.
See, the thing is, Sagittarius have to go; it's in their blood! When someone tries to tie them down and control them, they can't deal and will just leave, and there will be no sexy time anytime soon.
Not only is dissing his financial situation unsexy to Capricorn, it's pretty much the worst and most painful thing you could say to him. So, hey, points for the worst thing ever to say to a Capricorn.
Probably not a good idea to bring up either of one's parents when you want sex, but to an Aquarius trying to put him in a box is not a great idea. They thrive on being unique, and if you label them in some way it will come off as completely unsexy.
Yikes, telling a Pisces they have no talent at some kind of artistic endeavor will shut down any chance of ever having sex with them, for you'll have broken them.