8 Ways To Reimagine The Missionary Position And Make It SEXY Again

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Missionary doesn't have to be boring.

Missionary is thought of as the most basic sex position. The receiver is on the bottom and the giver on the top, facing each other. Boring? It doesn't have to be.

"Missionary is actually one of MY favorite positions. Not only are you face to face with your partner for more intimacy, eye contact, kissing and dirty talk, but it also allows for many variations and benefits, some of which you may not have thought of," says adult film star and sex educator Jessica Drake.

According to many sexperts, women get the most pleasure out of basic missionary sex. There's nothing fancy about it, but many women said they love the closeness and the intimacy of having their partner's weight on them, the ability to kiss, talk, nibble, plus a lot of clit stimulation.

"But in order for missionary position to be most effective, make sure you're entering her at the correct angle. This is an important position to master — going in diagonally rather than straight in and out — as there's more friction for clitoral stimulation, which is best since that's how most women achieve orgasm," says sexpert Coleen Singer of sssh.com.

1. "Special Mish" Missionary

If you're on the bottom, try lying with your legs tightly closed.

"Amazing friction here. Possible clitoral orgasms. Win/win," says Drake.

2. Legs Up Missionary

Experiment with the position of your legs. The higher you raise your legs, the deeper the penetration.

"If your partner or their strap-on is well endowed, go slowly! Legs all the way up around their shoulders will be very deep," says Drake. 

3. Toy Play Missionary

When you're in missionary, you have free hands. Why not use one to hold a toy between your legs that will blow you away? 

"I recommend the Luxe Vibe from NS Novelties. Small yet strong, super-powerful, it will easily fit on your clit and guarantee some powerful orgasms without too much effort," says Drake.

4. Mirror Missionary

Another great way to spice up missionary (or most positions, actually) is to do it in front of a mirror.

"Seeing yourselves from different angles can be amazing; plus, you may discover your inner voyeur," says Drake.

5. Lubricated Missionary

A fantastic way to enhance any missionary or missionary variation is to embrace lube! Not just for penetration, but try it all over your belly, thighs, in between your legs. My current choice is the newest product from the Wicked Sensual Care Collection: Hybrid, a water/silicone combo that feels even wetter than water. Grind and rub on your partner for added sensations, different clitoral stimulation, and possible slow-build orgasms.

6. Squeezing Missionary

Use a pillow to elevate your butt for deeper penetration. Squeeze tight. Closing your legs together allows the penis to stimulate your clitoris more, says Singer.

7. Hip-Grabbing Missionary

Wrap your arms around him and pull his body close to yours to boost the intimacy.

"Grab his hips as he's thrusting so that you control the power and speed, not his pelvis," says Singer. 

8. Kinky Missionary


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Take a scarf or tie and have him bind your hands above you as he takes the reins, says Singer. Another kinky sex move: Spanking. Give his butt a playful slap to let him know how turned on you are.

 

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