The last thing you should ever worry about is how you are in bed. If you're enjoying yourself and it seems as if your partner is too, it's all good.
Hopefully, you and your partner are open about your likes and dislikes, and you have no problem telling each other to "do that more" or "do that less." Having great communication in and outside of the bedroom is key to any relationship.
The worst is when you're going along believing that you're amazing in the bedroom (you've certainly had no complaints), and then find out that your go-to sex move is actually leaving your boo cold — less than cold really, so much so that it practically ruins the mood. You wouldn't have even know that he doesn't like it if he hadn't blurted out his dislike.
You don't want to rethink everything you believe about sexual satisfaction and pleasure, but knowing that you haven't been getting a gold star when you and your partner have boned is just plain annoying. If he had just said something earlier, you could have adjusted your technique a little.
You don't want to obsess about it, but your annoyance is growing and it's affecting your relationship in a negative way. You shouldn't have to give your partner the third degree just to find out what he's really thinking, and everybody knows that asking "Was it good for you?" after a sex session is not good.
Astrology is here to help. The stars can tell you if the thing you're doing is really rubbing your partner the wrong way. Every individual born under a certain zodiac sign has things that they like sexually and things they definitely do not like. And while they may be hesitant to bring them up, the stars aren't.
If you really love your sex moves and your partner doesn't seem to, you might think about finding someone else. Your pleasure is at the top of the list of importance. Here's what you're best at in bed, according to his zodiac sign.
You like to tease. You like to get your man almost to the edge and then pull back. Aries men are aggressive in bed and they like their partners to be too, so when you tease them, it changes the dynamic. In the end, it's probably good for them to be forced to take their time. With sex, getting there can be half the fun.
You get upset when your partner doesn't have an orgasm. With Taurus, sex isn't just about having an orgasm — it's about kissing, touching, and endless amounts of foreplay. If they don't climax, it doesn't mean they didn't have a spectacular time.
Geminis love dirty talk and you're really good at it. The problem is you're too good at it. You're so creative and imaginative that Gemini gets so into it, they end up being in their head instead of enjoying the physicality of sex. Next time, try going back to basics with the dirty talk as it will be effective but not amazingly creative.
You are OK with skipping the foreplay, but Cancer isn't. They love feeling that connection that foreplay can create, and the best sex for Cancers is the emotional kind. It's OK to share your heart with a Cancer; you can trust them with it.
You know how your Leo man says he's OK with being told what to do in bed? He's not. It's OK to say what you want, just not how you want him to do it. Suggest, but don't demand. Leo's ego is more fragile than you might guess.
Virgos like every aspect of their life meticulously planned and practiced, even their sex life. So when you try to spontaneously have a quickie with your Virgo or try to talk them into the mile-high club, it's ultimately not going to go over well. Know that he wants to satisfy you and is researching how to do that. He knows he can't do his best work in a bathroom during his lunch break.
Libras put their bae's needs before their own, so when you try to put his needs before yours, you end up working at cross-purposes with each other. It's more than OK to be completely selfish when you're in bed with a Libra. Instead of fighting it, give in to being the one whose pleasure comes first.
Scorpios tend to be very mysterious, so it's no wonder they don't like a lot of questions in bed. You don't have to ask them if they like something — they'll let you know. Don't question them, just enjoy the wild ride that a Scorpio will take you on.
We all have favorite positions that we like to do over and over again. Well, everybody but Sagittarius! They want constant variety. So you know that favorite move/position you have? Maybe put it away for a while or do something that changes it slightly... anything that will make it feel new again.
Contrary to their conservative nature, Capricorns are actually one of the most sensual signs of the zodiac, but behind closed doors. When you try to engage them in public displays of affection, it makes them feel uncomfortable and makes them too tense to do anything remotely sexual. Remember: for Capricorn, timing and location is everything.
It can take time for Aquarius to go from work mode to sex mode, so give them a minute before you try jumping their bones. Once they get going, they're not going to stop and you'll get some mind-blowing sex as long as they can decompress first.
Pisces are very sensitive, and if you're engaged in role play be careful not to make some hurtful or insensitive comment (even if it's part of the scenario or you're just being in the moment). Pisces take things very seriously sometimes and it can be a boner-killer.