How To Have Hot Orgasms Just By Touching Your Clitoris

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Yes please!

There are many different types of orgasms, and each and every woman has her own way of getting off. But for most women, clitoral orgasms are where it's at. 

That's because clitoris is ultra sensitive and easy to stimulate with or without a partner. 

It's one of the first types of orgasm a woman experiences and some say that it's the type they enjoy the most. 

But clitoral orgasms get a bad rap. Thanks to the work of great minds like Sigmund Freud, there are negative associations (like mental illness) with women who can only climax using clitoral stimulation. Luckily, this sexist hokum is finally being discredited for real. 

A new study published by the Journal of Sexual Medicine has found that women who have clitoral orgasms are actually MORE in control of their desire than women who do not. That's right, Freud!

There's nothing wrong with clitoral orgasm. It's friggin' awesome!

And I should know, I have them all the time. 

If you've shied away from clitoral orgasms and want to try to have your first, here are some tips that can make clitoral orgasms happen for you without any penetrative sex

1. Use a toy 

It can be difficult for some woman to have a clitoral orgasm using just their own hands at first. That's totally okay! Find a toy that stimulates your clitoris and use it on its lowest setting.

Any common, inexpensive bullet vibrator should be able to help. Place the bullet directly on your clitoris or directly above it. Then all you have to worry about is adjusting the speed of the vibrator until you find something that works for you.

2. Explore in the bath 

There can be something kind of disenchanting about using lube when you're masturbating. If having a clitoral orgasm is challenging for you, it's important to find ways to stay in a relaxed and arousing mood.

Setting up a romantic, sensual bath experience is a great way of taking off the pressure and all that water just makes things even wetter and can increase sensation. 

Using the water faucet or hand-held shower to masturbate has become many women's favorite improvised sex toy.

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3. Stimulate your nipples 

Having a clitoral orgasm doesn't mean you can't touch the rest of your body. In fact, you totally should! Explore your erogenous zones (your nipples, your neck) with one hand while the other hand focuses on stimulating your clitoris in a way that feels good to you. It's multitasking that ends with an orgasm.

It doesn't get much better than that. 

4. Practice edging 

To increase the intensity of your clitoral orgasms, you can always try edging. Edging is when you bring yourself right up to the "edge" of orgasm, and then stop all stimulation, denying yourself the orgasm.

The idea is that doing this repeatedly can lead to orgasms that are way more intense than anything you have experienced before. 

 

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5. Explore your entire clitoris 

The clitoris itself is more than the small nub of erectile tissue that is visible to the naked eye. It is in fact 10 times bigger than it appears, with long legs running parallel to your vaginal opening. When you begin masturbating, do not neglect your entire clitoris.

Take time to stroke and fondle your inner and outer labia. You'll start accessing your clitoris in entirely new ways that are sure to guarantee hot orgasms. 

 

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