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Touch it THIS way!
By Christine Schoenwald — Written on Oct 21, 2016
As humans, we all crave to be touched. It may be in a sexual way, a friendly way, or in a nurturing way. Being touched feels good, and is good for us emotionally and physically. Not everybody likes to be touched in the same way. You might really like having your nipples squeezed, while someone else with sensitive nipples hates that and would prefer a sweet hug.
When we're babies, one of the first things we get to know is the touch of our parents, especially the touch of our mothers. As we grow up we still need to be touched, and the different kinds of touch we enjoy increase, though not everyone can or should touch us. We like being touched in an appropriate manner, and if it's sexual, with consent.
All of us are different, as are our needs for physical contact. We all have different erogenous zones: places on our bodies that have heightened sensitivity that, when stimulated, may generate a sexual response. Obviously, for men, the penis is one big erogenous zone and a place that they love to have touched.
When you're in high school, just touching a penis can be a big deal for both you and the guy. While the penis can be very user-friendly, it also can seem to have a mind of its own sometimes and does what it wants to do.
It's tricky when handling a penis; you don't want to touch it so slightly that it doesn't feel anything. But on the other hand, you don't want to squeeze it too hard. When touching a penis, it's important to hear from its owner about what they like and don't like. But when you're meeting it for the first time, it can be intimidating trying to discover what increases his pleasure and what does not.
Here's how he likes his penis touched, according to his zodiac sign.
Aries (March 21 - April 19)
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Like most things, Aries men like their penises to be touched just the way they tell you to do it. They are a very "take charge" sign and they're going to give you direction to everything, including a basic hand job.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
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Taurus men like their penis gently stroked for a long time; in fact, you may have to switch hands if one gets tired. Taurus' thrive on touch so, of course, that includes their penis.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
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A Gemini man is going to want a combination of mouth and hands on his penis, so expect to switch between a blow job and a hand job quite a number of times.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
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Cancer's favorite way to have his member touched is sandwiched between two breasts. It's such a warm and comforting place to be.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One
Leo (July 23 - August 22)
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Leo likes his penis to be touched as if it were the penis of royalty, which, in Leo's mind, isn't far off-base. Touch it, admire it, and make notes on what it responds to, and then do it again.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
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Virgo's erogenous zone is their stomach; they love having that touched. You can touch the penis as long as you don't forget to caress their belly, too.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
Libra (September 23 - October 22)
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Since Libras are all about everything being harmonious, the best way to touch their penis is to make an "OK" sign around the head of his penis, then stroke downward, following immediately with your other hand doing the same thing from the top. Keep repeating, then reverse directions and pull upward to mix things up.
Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
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Scorpios are exceptionally sexual, but they're also heavily into eye contact. Put his penis in your mouth and tap the head of it against your tongue, while making sure that you're engaged in smoldering eye contact with him.
Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
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Sagittarius are all about fun, so they'll enjoy it when you incorporate a sex toy with your touch. Whether you're touching him with your hand or your mouth, including something new and unexpected will be much appreciated.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
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Before your Capricorn man has gotten undressed, touch his member through his pants. Rub it, squeeze it, and roll your palm over it — he loves how that friction feels against the fabric.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
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Aquarius can be a bit kinky, so he'll love it if you put on a pair of rubber or latex gloves before you lube up and stroke his shaft. The gloves could also lead to a doctor/nurse scenario, which is cool as Aquarius loves a little role play.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One
Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
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This sign rules the feet, so if you want to make a Pisces man happy, involve your feet. Lightly touch his penis with your feet before touching him all over, or while sitting on the floor put his penis between both of your feet.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One
