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If he's acting strangely, that could just be his way of showing that he likes you.
By Christine Schoenwald — Written on Aug 29, 2016
While it's true that actions speak louder than words, sometimes those actions can be difficult to decipher. Luckily, the stars are here to help you.
All of us behave differently, in different situations, especially when we're nervous or shy. Your guy may act distant or cold and you don't know if he hates you or he likes you, or if he just hasn't made up his mind. It can be confusing, especially when you're equally annoyed and frustrated at your inability to know what he's really trying to tell you.
You'd think if you're talking to someone in the same language, like English, you'd be able to understand each other, but that's not always the case. Men seem to have their very own language and sometimes we need a translator to figure out what they're trying to tell us.
And it's not just verbal messages that can be confusing; sometimes the way men act or don't act sends mixed messages. We begin to get desperate to figure out what they're telling us, and even when we question them directly, we still don't get the answers we seek.
Those times are when we need a little help in understanding, and that's where astrology comes in.
Every individual born under a certain zodiac sign has specific characteristics and behaviors, both positive and negative, that are unique to them. Zodiac can tell you what a man's actions really mean. He could be telling you he really cares about you when he does something as simple as returning your texts. It may seem like no big deal, but to him it might be huge.
Astrology can help us understand the clues and behaviors of the men in our lives. So, here's some guidance via the zodiac about how he acts when he really likes you.
Aries (March 21 - April 19)
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A good indicator that your Aries man really likes you is if he's being generous with his money, time and affection. Aries men like the chase and they like having lots of partners, so if he's focusing in on you, that's a huge sign. An Aries man will also send you flowers for no reason and send you sweet texts just to find out how your day is going.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
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A Taurus man isn't going to shower you with gifts but he'll give something just as precious: his undivided attention, and he'll really listen to you. It may take a while for him to realize he really likes you — I'm talking months or years — but once he does, his affection for you will only grow.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
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A Gemini man will let you know he's very interested in you with words. He'll actually leave you phone messages, write you nice texts and emails, and he may even share with you his favorite poetry. Yes, he loves talking to people, but with you, it's more than talking — it's an exchange of souls.
Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
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You'll know if a Cancer man really likes you if he introduces you to his family. It's a done deal if you meet his family at a dinner that he's prepared. Family is important to him and he wants to see how you fit in with his. The best impression you make with his family, the more he sees a future with you.
Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One
Leo (July 23 - August 22)
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If a Leo man really likes you, he'll be the one who reaches out first and makes plans. And if he needs to go out of his way in order to see you, you'll know for sure that he's interested. Don't be surprised if he buys you a designer dress or shoes; Leos like to look good and they want their bae to look good, too.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
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Here's a secret to a Virgo man: he feels good when he makes you feel good, so he's going to show his interest by praising you and being amazingly supportive of your career goals. He will do what he can to help them become a reality.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)
Libra (September 23 - October 22)
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You'll know a Libra man has his eyes on you when you notice how attached he is to you and how he's spending a lot of time with you. Libras thrive on connection, and he'll do what he can to build a strong bond between you. He's charming, polite, and will go to the ends of the earth for you, even if that means buying you tampons at the grocery store.
Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
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If a Scorpio man is interested in you, he'll do his best to pretend that he's not. He'll spend that time not paying attention to you by Googling and researching you. By the time he's ready to come clean about his emotions, you'll be thoroughly convinced he can't stand you.
Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
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Sagittarius men have a tendency to fall hard for someone very quickly, and then get bored and want to move on. But if you manage to keep his attention, he'll be friendly, fun and will suggest trips that you can take together. He has no problem traveling solo, so if he wants to bring you along that's a very good sign.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
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A Capricorn man will sacrifice his personal comfort in order to spend time with you, so if he volunteers to go with you to a doctor or dentist appointment, he's showing that he cares a lot. Since the Capricorn man isn't averse to hard work, don't be surprised if he repairs a lot of the things around your house that need to be fixed.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
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You'll know that an Aquarius man really likes you when he constantly surprises you with creative and unexpected things. You had no idea that every Sunday there was a Thai food fair or that you could rent paddle boats and go out on the lake. Plus, there's the fact that he's so flirty with you.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One
Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
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Pisces men are extremely intuitive and he'll be able to sense what you need before you're even aware that you need it. He'll show how much he likes you by buying you the perfect hand-sculpted vase for the roses in your garden, or make you a music mix for when you're working out. He's kind of dreamy that way.
Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One