The Secret Thing That Turns Him OFF, According To His Zodiac Sign

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He may not tell you this turn off, but the stars will.

Have you ever been involved with someone only to have them do something like not leave a big enough tip or use a fork to pick their teeth, and you become completely turned off?

This can happen to anyone.

It's not that we're too picky or intolerant, it's just that there are some things that really seem to get under our skin.

Sexual attraction is a huge part of relationships, and finding someone you're attracted to and who doesn't annoy you that much can be difficult.

We all have our own set of deal-breakers and things that we can't tolerate in another person.

They may make no sense, and for anybody else they wouldn't be a big deal.

No one else may understand why you couldn't make it work with your last partner, and when you ended things with them, you could deal; they just didn't get why you wouldn't want to be with them.

Turn-offs are distinctive to the individual and sometimes there really is no rhyme or reason why they can completely change your feelings for someone or why they change someone's feelings for you.

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When we're dating someone, we try to learn as much as we can about them.

What makes them happy or sad?

What past experiences are still affecting them today?

What are the things they like and the things they hate?

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Most of the time, people don't really get into their turn-offs in a relationship.

They might not even know that something is a turn-off until it literally turns them off to someone.

The turn-off can be temporary and you can get past it, or it might not ever be surmounted.

You might not know it, but that guy you're dating has a whole lot of turn-offs and if you don't watch out, you might do one without knowing it.

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The stars can help you avoid some of these mysterious turn-offs.

Here's the secret thing that turns him off, based on his zodiac sign. You've been warned.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)
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Aries men don't appreciate overly-needy, weepy, emo types of people.

What you really don't want to do is try to manipulate them with emotion.

Never give them an ultimatum; they won't make the choice you want and they'd rather let you go than deal with your emotional demands.

 

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries, As Written By One

 

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
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Taurus men are completely turned off by someone who is super-demanding and tries to dominate Taurus and his life.

You can be strong, just not too abrasive or aggressive.

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Taurus, As Written By One

 

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
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Don't roll your eyes at Gemini as if they don't know what they're talking about or you'll find yourself rolled right out of their lives.

Geminis don't do well with contempt.

 

Read: The 13 Brutal Truths About Loving A Gemini, As Written By One

 

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
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Don't be condescending to a Cancer.

If you treat them like a child, they will lose every bit of attraction they felt for you.

 

Read: The 5 Brutal Truths About Loving A Cancer, As Written By One

 

Leo (July 23 - August 22)
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If a Leo catches you in a lie, even a teeny tiny white lie, you'll lose your chance at any kind of relationship with them, even a purely sexual one.

Tell them how great they are, but mean it.

 

Read: 6 Brutal Truths About Loving A Leo, As Written By One

 

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
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Virgos like everything to be neat and clean, and that includes the people in their lives.

If you eat junk food in bed, that will turn them off in so many different ways, you won't even be able to keep count.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Virgo (As Written By A Virgo)

 

Libra (September 23 - October 22)
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Don't give a Libra any criticism they didn't ask for.

You may mean well, but Libra will interpret that as very unsupportive, and even worse, mean.

There's nothing more unattractive to a Libra than someone who isn't nice.

 

Read: 11 Brutal Truths About Loving A Libra, As Written By One

 

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
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Don't tease the Scorpion.

Flirting is good, but not teasing.

Scorpios see teasing as frustrating, manipulative, and downright disrespectful, and they lose their sense of humor when it comes to being teased. 

 

Read: 14 Brutal Truths About Loving A Scorpio, As Written By One

 

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
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Sagittarius men are constantly in perpetual motion.

So if you're a couch potato who never wants to do anything or go anywhere, Sagittarius will get mightily turned off.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Sagittarius, As Written By One

 

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
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Capricorns can't stand fakes, and that includes things and people.

If you aren't real and try to pretend you're somebody you're not, Capricorn will go from interested to completely not, very quickly.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Capricorn, As Written By One

 

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
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"No." 

You wouldn't think that such a small word would carry so much power, but to an Aquarius it does.

If you tell an Aquarius "no," not only will they ignore you, but any desire they had for you will disappear.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aquarius, As Written By One

 

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
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Pisces don't enjoy a player mentality when it comes to sex.

If you treat sex in a very unemotional detached way, Pisces won't want anything to do with you, especially in bed.

No sex buddies for Pisces.

 

Read: 7 Brutal Truths About Loving A Pisces, As Written By One

 

 

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