10 Sad-But-True Signs He's Not Physically Attracted To You Anymore

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15 Signs He's Not Physically Attracted To You Anymore
Love, Sex

He might not be that into you anymore...

Every couple's attraction to one another waxes and wanes over the course of a typical long-term relationship, and that's actually pretty normal. What isn't normal is when your partner stops being attracted to you at all.

As painful as it can be, it's important to notice if this has happened in your relationship. After all, there may still be a chance to rekindle that flame if you catch it happening in time. If you're concerned about your partner having lost interest, check to see if any of these telltale signs show up for you.

1. Your boyfriend is having difficulty getting it up ... on a regular basis.

This is one of the most obvious indicators that something's amiss in your love life. Assuming that he's healthy and in a generally good mood, there's no reason he shouldn't be able to get an erection regularly.

2. He chooses masturbation over sleeping with you on an increasingly regular basis.

There's nothing wrong with enjoying a little bit of self-love, but when you know for a fact that he's rejecting your advances in favor of masturbation, there's a problem.

3. He no longer touches you.

This doesn't necessarily have to mean sex. Simple gestures like kissing, cuddling, or even just holding your hand are indicators that a guy is still attracted to you. If he's outright recoiling when you try to hold him, he's all but lost his attraction to you.

4. The way he talks to you sounds more like the way a guy would talk to his sister, roommate, or guy friends than a girlfriend.

When he begins to treat you like a roommate rather than a wife or girlfriend, you should get very worried. This is often a sign that he's stopped viewing you as a sexual being.

5. His overall demeanor has become cold, distant, or aggressive.

This is often a sign that he's checked out of the relationship, and that means he's most likely stopped being into you a long time ago.

6. He almost always rejects you and comes up with reasons not to sleep with you.

If he's not even remotely receptive to your sexual advances, chances are high that he's lost interest. During a lower libido spell, he'll still be open to sexual encounters, but they just won't be as frequent.

7. Your body underwent major changes.

Though it's not what anyone wants to hear, men are very visual creatures. If you gained 30, 40 or 50 pounds, there may be a chance that your boyfriend or husband might not find you as attractive as he did when you first got together. The good news is that you may actually be able to reignite passion with him if you do something to improve your look.

8. He only wants to be with you when he's been drinking.

If it's gotten to the point that he feels like he needs "beer goggles" to be into you, his interest is long gone.

9. Everything you do seems to upset him.

When someone is really into you on a physical level, they will overlook all the little annoying quirks you have. When someone stops being attracted to you, all those little quirks become increasingly annoying, and can even make your formerly chill significant other get snippy with you.

10. Something just feels "off."

Some guys pull off a really good façade of interest, even when they've checked out of a relationship. If your gut is telling you that he's just not into you anymore, you might want to listen to your intuition.



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