Get a grip, girl!
Chasing a crush is exhausting. You spend nearly all your waking (and even some unconscious) moments trying to figure out how to finally win him or her over, only to have nothing work, forcing you back to square one every time.
Sure, it can be fun occasionally: There's the drama, the suspense, the anticipation ... But it's usually followed by disappointment and rejection, because, well, if he wanted to be with you, you wouldn't need to work so damn hard just to get a modicum of his or her attention.
Also, newsflash: If your crush isn't outright rejecting you in explicit terms, he or she may be implicitly rejecting you but trying to be polite.
If it's been months and you haven't been on a date or even had a phone call, what the hell are you doing with your life? You're wasting a lot of time that could be spent with someone who would adore you right off the bat.
Here are a few signs you really need to cut this crush loose: