Don't fear the kink!
We all have that one friend that is afraid of our buzzing playmates. She raises a brow when you mention how much you enjoy your “bullet on your clitoris" or utter the word "lube." “No one needs to know your business,” your amiga often says. “That's so...kinky,” she says with a mix of curiosity and disapproval. So you retrieve to your land of dildos and vibrators, hoping that one day she’ll embrace her very own B.O.B (Battery Operated Boyfriend).
Nonetheless, you can lead the way. Take your amiga by the hand and expose her to these sex toys perfect for beginners:
1. Mini Bullet
There are many mini bullets to choose from. Most are made of metal and only have one speed, so it's perfect for beginners. Like Anastasia Steele, you can spice up sex...slowly...with the 50 Shades We Aim to Please Vibrating Bullet.
2. Butterfly C-Ring With Bullet
The Butterfly C-Ring with Bullet is the perfect couples toy for beginners. All your guy has to do is place the c-ring on the base of his penis before he is erect. Turn him on like you normally would and then turn on the mini bullet that sits on top of the c-ring. Once he starts rocking in and out, and back and forth, the butterfly wings will vibrate and hit your clitoris.
3. Pocket Toyfriend
For the gal who likes to pleasure herself sola, the Pocket Toyfriend is the perfectly discreet vibrator. It doesn’t have too much kick, so it is great for newbies. Plus, it comes in such girly colors! No one will ever know how nasty it (and you) can get.
4. My First Rabbit Vibe
Do you remember The Rabbit that Charlotte was addicted to on Sex and the City? For those who can't hack the big guns (yet), My First Rabbit Vibe is a tamer version of the infamous sex toy. With pearls that arouse the opening and bunny ears that stimulate your clitoris, you'll feel just as fancy as an Upper East Side Yorker.
5. Ohmibod Club Vibe 2.Oh
If you want to carry your mini bullet in your chonies, the Ohmibod Club Vibe 2.Oh is the move. Literally. Perfect for the club girl who wants to venture into sex toys, the vibrator moves to the rhythm of the music. Just pop it into the panty’s front pouch — right over your clitoris — and girate on the dance floor. And let's just say, your erotic dancing won't be because of the music.
6. Starbust Tickler
The Starbust Tickler is quite a treat for couples who want to turn up the kink in the bedroom. No batteries required. All you need is a blindfold and to brush the end all over his body (or yours). If you become a pro and want it a little rougher, find a tickler with a whip. Whip him into shape and meow like a sexy catwoman!
This article was originally published at Latina. Reprinted with permission from the author.