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Let's Cut The B.S. The Biggest Reason You Scared Him Off [VIDEO]


BREAKING NEWS. Here's why you haven't had a lot of luck getting your flirt on lately.

We don't think there's ever been a time where we didn't wonder whether anything we said or did contributed to our dates ending in a total disaster. You would think that after going on so many first dates (including blind dates, setups and online dating), there would be at least ONE guy who ended up being the perfect fit. But instead of living happily ever after, we're stuck footing the bill at a table for one.

Seriously, just why is it so hard to cut through all of the bullsh*t that comes with dating?

What's even worse is that there will be times where it seemed like you hit it off...only for him to never call you back. So, what gives?

If this situation sounds way too familiar, you may want to sit down for this because author Charles Orlando keeps it real about why you may have actually scared your date off. First things first, you have to put everything into perspective. If you really think about it, can you honestly say that there wasn't anything you did that may have set him off?

Let's get down to the basics.

1. On a scale of one to ten, how much contact did you have with him before and after the date?

2. Just how realistic were your expections? What exactly were your dating goals?

If you want to know the exact reasons why he was so turned off even though everything seemed to be going right, Charles Orlando's advice will definitely give it to you straight on what he really means when he says "It's not you, it's me."


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