6 Sexy (And Fun!) Ways To Seduce Your Husband

seduce husband

Spice up your marriage with these techniques.

Let's face it: seducing guys ain’t that hard. A little cleavage and some footsie is pretty much all it takes. But when you're in a long-term committed relationship, the challenge is making your moves new and memorable (and sexy).

What follows are seven classic approaches to seduction that you can make your own with your hubby — and have sexy fun doing it.

1. The Detective

It's the quintessential seduction technique: Show up on the doorstep or open the door in a trench coat, heels and not much else. It's a bold move that takes nerve and confidence. But before you bust it out, just be sure there'll be no surprises (like an impromptu guy’s poker night).

And don't feel obligated to wear the traditional lace garter-belt ensemble underneath. An oversized "Go Mets!" T-shirt, especially if he's a fan, might work just as well.

What's sexier than a sense of humor?

2. The Anais Nin

In an email, text or–get this–a handwritten lust note (yes, they still make nice pens), tell him what you want to do to him right now in great graphic detail, preferably sent to him when he’s in the middle of an important business meeting.

This also works whispered in his ear in the middle of a crowded party, a movie theater, or a restaurant.

3. The Centerfold 

No need to have bleach blonde hair, fake boobs or access to an airbrush. A softly lit digital pic taken from a flattering angle will do the trick.

Send him one on your camera phone, leave one in his briefcase, or slip one under his pillow, etc. When you take it yourself, you can art direct so as to leave something (including your identity) to the imagination.

Note: Only for the committed partner you really, really trust…

4. The Julie McCoy

Plan a guy date: take note of his likes (e.g. microbrews), hobbies (e.g. fly fishing), and interests (e.g. politics) and then plan a surprise date around them. 

For example, pack a picnic with a six pack of his favorite ale and have him teach you how to fish while you debate the merits of the electoral college system. From then on, he'll be happy (okay, willing) to go shopping with you and hold your purse.

5. The Mrs. Robinson

You take erotic control: make the first move, tell him what you're going to do to him, have him lie back while you call the shots (you can even tie him up so he complies), you undress him, then yourself (or not)…guaranteed he'll be putty in your hands (again, unless he's one of those aforementioned meat heads).

6. The Pretty Woman 

For those in long-term relationships, creating the illusion of variety can help spice things up (and make it sexy).

Like Julia Roberts, don a blonde bobbed wig and some thigh-high boots (or whatever outfit or Halloween costume makes you look and feel like a new person) and have fun with a little light role-playing: "Hey there, stranger…"

This article was originally published at Em & Lo. Reprinted with permission from the author.


Explore YourTango